Amazon-com reviews of rabbi boteach book

Stunning: Amazon-com readers' reviews of the book about Michael Jackson by the bloodsucking Rabbi Shmuley Boteach

The following are more than 100 reviews of the book posted at amazon.com. Almost all the reviews express their contempt and disgust towards the Rabbi Shumley Goteach, the Leech!

Boycott Shmuley's Book, October 14, 2009

By L W Ngan "Mabel" (Hong Kong) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

"We, the worldwide fan community who love, respect and honour Michael Jackson are united in our defiance of Shmuley's act of betrayal. We do not support this book in any way. It is a total violation of Michael's right to privacy and we believe the publication of the content of these tapes to be a breach of the trust Michael placed in Shmuley. We, the worldwide fan community will not join Shmuley in his betrayal and we will not help him profit from his deception of Michael. Not only will we not buy the book, we also send a clear message to all others who seek to attack the truth, beauty and integrity of Michael's memory. This statement is a declaration of our intent. We, as a community will not support or tolerate any such attacks, but will actively protect Michael's legacy and rights - not only for Michael and his children who survive him, but for all of us who choose to honour what Michael achieved, endured and gave here. He lives whenever and wherever he is remembered. And we choose to remember him with love." Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

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Don't Read This Book, October 14, 2009

By subwolley "subwolley" (albuquerque, NM) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

I was already aware of the fact that the Rabbi had a negative view of Michael Jackson, and this book only proves that. It's his own twisted idea of Michael Jackson as a pathetic sad soul. Michael may have had his faults and his sadness, but he also had his happiness and all the high points in his life. Don't read this book. The tapes should have never been released to the public. The Rabbi is only looking to make a buck of Michael's death. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

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If only you could put no stars..., October 14, 2009

By Hannah - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

Why don't you just got his autobiography "Moonwalk" if you don't already have it. Or maybe "The Official Michael Jackson Opus" Since both are authorized. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

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This book is terrible dont waste your money, October 14, 2009

By Mary A. Fabry (Green Bay, WI United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

I heard about this book through the media & was thinking it would be a good book because it actually contains questions answered by Michael Jackson & the other book I got "The Magic & Madness etc." was a much better book than this one & is worth the money & time to read it but did not contain questions answered by Michael Jackson. But this book was such a disappointment I am not even sure at times if I want to finish the book. It is so obvious as to what a negative person this Rabbi is & also his dislike for Michael. He is just looking to make money off of the death of Michael & if I wanted to get preached to I could just skip the book & go to church. Do not make the mistake I made & buy the book. At least Moon Walk is being re-released I should have just waited since I could not win the book on ebay. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

I'm sorry that I bought this book., October 14, 2009

By Diane P. Hanz - See all my reviews

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This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

I should have waited to read other reviews before buying this book. It is apparent that this Rabbi is no man of God. Michael was searching for spiritual guidance and help and this man took advantage of that. The Rabbi will pay for his sins 'Vengence is mine, says the Lord.' I wish Michael would have been led to someone who could have really helped him with the issues that plagued his life. This Rabbi only made things worse for michael. And giving him my money makes me sick inside. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

MJ Tapes By The Rabbi, October 14, 2009

By Jennifer D. Blaize "Bookworm" (Virgin Islands (US)) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

I refuse to buy this book. In a book store I will skim it. If you want to lend me your copy cool. I will pass it on to the next person if you wish or return it to you. This Rabbi will not make a dime from me.

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Disgusting, October 13, 2009

By Boopie (USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

Why can't Boteach just lay it out. If you want to hear intimate conversations with Michael actually speaking and further invade MJ's privacy for less/free. Go to youtube and hear MJ's private conversations on the phone rather then give this money grubbing backstabbing ju. MJ would never have wanted this published, and less with his spinning comments. Filth. The author is scum. Another one making money off a dead man. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR "THE RABBI" WHO HEART IS COLD & IS MAKING MONEY AFTER MICHAEL PASSED. HOW COLD & CRUEL THE RABBI IS TO ME, October 13, 2009

By Lynn Canesso "booklynn" (Cape May, New Jersey) - See all my reviews

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This review is from: The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversation (Hardcover)

HOW DARE "THE RABBI" CASHES IN ON MICHAEL'S DEATH FROM THIS WORLD BY RELEASING THIS BOOK OF TAPES MICHAEL MAY NEVER WANTED RELEASED AND FOR WHAT~ IN THE NAME OF "THE ALMIGHTY DOLLAR(S)".

HE WAS ONCE MICHAEL JACKSONS SPIRITUAL ADVISOR BUT HE TURNS HIS BACK ON HIM FOR WEAK AND NOT VERY GOD LIKE REASONS.

HE HAD THE NERVE TO JUDGE MICHAEL WHEN HE SHOULD BE LOOKING INTO THE MIRROR AND TAKING A GOOD LOOK AT HOW COLD, HOW CRUEL "HE" ~THE RABBI ~ ACTUALLY IS.

INSTEAD OF REACHING OUT TO HELP MICHAEL HE TURNS HIS BACK ON HIM!

I WOULD NEVER BUY ANY THING WRITTEN BY THIS RABBI AND I WONDER IF HE IS ASKING GOD FOR FORGIVENESS OR EVEN MICHAEL JACKSON FOR THAT MATTER.

GOD IS LOVE AND MICHAEL JACKSON IS SURROUNDED BY UNCONDITIONAL LOVE NOW ~ I KNOW IT....

MICHAEL WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED BY THE SAME PEOPLE MICHAEL TRULY LOVED!

FROM LYNN ~CAPE MAY NEW JERSEY

Just another person trying to hurt Michael Jackson, October 13, 2009

By Bluedaisy - See all my reviews

I am a big Michael Jackson fan and bought this book in hopes of seeing someone that was giving us a deeper unknown part of the tragic singers life. NOT SO! All the info was old hat and just another person trying to make money off the man. It seems like the Rabbi was angry that Michael left him behind and I think the book puts Michael Jackson in an even worse light. The questions were very leading...Boteach would ask long questions that were actually answers in themselves and MJ's answers were basically yeah yeah absolutley. There were really no comments by the singer that were of substance. And when there were they showed just how sad, distorted and sick Michaels views were. I would not waste money on this book and I really dont think he would have wanted this stuff published in the end. Just more stuff to hurt his family and especially his kids. And Boteach calls himself a friend! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

4 star, but not 5 star, October 12, 2009

By Rebecca L. Neels - See all my reviews

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i received this book last thursday, which was way before the estimated time of arrival, which was awesome! having 5 small children, i have had to stretch finishing it until tonight, monday night.

i gave this book 4 stars because i really liked the book, but it wasn't a 5 star book because of the author's very strong opinions, which obviously weren't always correct. i have 4 main points that i think every mj fan has to consider before reading this book:

1. the author came across like he really believed that what a person does for their occupation automatically pulls them away from any kind of grounding or spirituality - it's either the person who goes to work (as a baseball star or doctor or even at mcdonald's flipping burgers) or the spiritual one - and if you spend time doing what your job is, whether it is a baseball star, a doctor, or a mcdonald's cook, it is almost not good to do your best at it because then it is taking time away from the spiritual time with God - and i think that view is not correct. i think if a person allows their job to take away from their time with God, it certainly can, but it doesn't need to -i think a person needs to do the best they can in whatever their occupation and do it for God. so they are really one and the same - having a job and doing it for God - one doesn't have to take away from the other - but that is a good warning, because it could happen.

2. the author says that he tried to "normalize" mj, which i don't know if that is good or not. to a certain extent i think so, but then he can't expect mj to keep living like that. i think mj had a ton of commitments in his career that needed to be taken proper care of so that he couldn't be expected to keep going to these other commitment plans (that were trying to "normalize" him) which the rabbi was making for him. if a person is a humungous celebrity, they don't have time to have commitments to "normal" things, because the celebrity commitments are probably too huge. i can't imagine that kind of pressure - to try to do celebrity commitments plus "normal" ones. (i know how jam packed my own schedule gets with 5 children and i have to say no to a lot of things, let alone what mj had to deal with in his schedule!)

3. what really jumped out at me at the end of the book was the feeling of guilt that the rabbi had for even conducting these interviews with a celebrity like mj and for feeling like he needed mj to feel like a better rabbi himself (because mj was such a huge superstar paying attention to him)

4. i just want to caution people before buying this book - this author has some strong opinions - and i can be an opinionated person, too, so i get it, but if you're not ready to gloss over some things and say to yourself, "oh, that's his opinion, not mine," then i wouldn't get the book.

i LOVED all the interview time in this book! i feel like i know mj more now. he told what he thinks is sexy in a girl, some really specific experiences he had with children, his fears, his relationship to hollywood stars and the hollywood aura, his need for friendship, his relationship to lisa marie, how he met shirley temple black, his practical jokster side, religion, being a daddy. and there is an interview in here with the author and mj's mom, katherine.

it was actually not a bad thing to get a book that wasn't all about the good things on mj - i have those and they are awesome because i am a big fan of his - but it was good to see that not all the world thought he was an "idol" who could do no wrong (not that i am at all implying he was guilty of any of his charges - i believe he was completely innocent - i just mean simple other flaws that we as humans have)

i read all the reviews for probably a few weeks before purchasing the book trying to decide if i should get it or not, and i'm glad i purchased it.

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A Redundant, Tedious Collection of Nothing, October 12, 2009

By Michael D. Jones "Michael Jones" (Washington DC) - See all my reviews

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After hearing some television excerpts of the tapes transcribed in this book, I was somewhat excited to read it. Now that I have, I fear that the snippets that had intrigued me were the extent of what was I thought might be interesting. Page after page, and chaper after chapter, the author/rabbi poses repetitious questions of the late Michael Jackson, and in turn, gets the same repetitive answers. For example, as soon as it had been covered early on what love and importance Jackson holds for the children of the world, the good (?) rabbi continues to beat that particular horse again and again, ad nauseum...and that's just one example. There's nothing in this book that's any kind of revelation, other than (perhaps) that Jackson considered Madonna a "witch." This book is a complete waste of time and money, and no matter what you think of Michael Jackson (my own feelings are as mixed as ever),the author should be ashamed of himself for using these private, boring conversations to his own financial benefit, capitalizing on Jackson's relatively recent death (note that the last of the tapes was made quite a few years ago, and Jackson wasn't even speaking to the rabbi in all those final years). Don't buy this book. It has nothing for anyone to gain, other than its opportunistic, obnoxious author. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

do not buy it, October 12, 2009

By P. Brazil "Brazil" (California) - See all my reviews

this book I borrwoed off the shelf and would NEVER EVER pay for. This rabbi is taking the money and exposing Michael's words like that without any respect to his privay. So what he is no longer with us. Doesn't he have any shame. How dare he makes money off of him like that.

THIS SHOUDL BE ILLEGAL...

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Don't give rabbi your money!, October 12, 2009

By Julia Millar "Julia" (Atlanta, GA, USA) - See all my reviews

Michael must have the most loyal fans in the world! Somebody actually uploaded the whole book online for free download (I assume to sabotage the sale of the book). I don't want to post the link here (don't want to make it easy for the snake to find and remove it), but please look around - you should be able to find at least one location. PLEASE DON'T GIVE HIM YOUR MONEY!!! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Coward, October 11, 2009

By BootHunter (Caribbean) - See all my reviews

Schmuley is a coward for coming forth with this book at this time. I think there could be some truth in Michael wanting a book published with his input, however, THIS book would have never, EVER been it.

If you have to read this, just skip Schmuley's so called 'analysis'. Stick to just MJ's words and you won't want to throw this into a fire.

I wish I could give this a 0, but I can't. Therefore, in this 1/5 rating, the one is for Michael's actual words. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Please boycott - this disgrace, October 11, 2009

By jordan - See all my reviews

We, the worldwide fan community who love, respect and honour Michael Jackson are united in our defiance of Shmuley's act of betrayal. We do not support this book in any way. It is a total violation of Michael's right to privacy, and we believe the publication of the content of these tapes to be a breach of the trust Michael placed in Shmuley. We, the members of the worldwide fan community will not join Shmuley in his betrayal, and we will not help him profit from his deception of Michael. Not only will we not buy the book, we also send a clear message to all others who seek to attack the truth, beauty and integrity of Michael's memory. This statement is a declaration of our intent. We as a community will not support or tolerate any such attacks on Michael's name, memory or legacy in any way, and we actively protect Michael's legacy and rights - not only for Michael and his children who survive him, but for all of us who choose to honour what Michael achieved, endured and gave here. He lives whenever and wherever he is remembered. And we choose to remember him with love. "

This is a worldwide call to all the fans: Please paste this ' Declaration of Intent ' everywhere on youtube, facebook and every Michael Jackson site worldwide and especially in your own country. Shmuley will be attempting to sell this book worldwide. We, the fans can limit his effectiveness by letting everyone know this book is available for download. We, the fans support the products and initiatives Sony and the ' Estate' produce as this benefits Michael's estate and his children. That is why the fans community supports this site, but we will not allow Shmuley and other opportunists to profit from Michael's death and, more than that, we will not the beautiful memory of Michael to be dishonoured and taken away from us. Please paste this everywhere and note that the book this statement refers to is available for audio play free at youtube and download free at the Forum part of this site and other public access sites. If you have already bought Shmuley's book, why not return it and get your money back. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Do not waste your hard earned dollars !!!, October 11, 2009

By MJ TX network "MJ Fan" (USA) - See all my reviews

It is very clear to me that the author of this book is just out to make a profit from Michael's untimely death. I glanced through this book and watched the interviews with the Rabbi on Dateline & Larry King Live. I even heard the Rabbi on the Tom Joyner radio show and the Rabbi got very defensive when asked why did he decide to release these tape after Michael's death. The Rabbi hung up on Tom Joyner during the interview. This Rabbi is a snake in the grass and a coward !!!!

30 pieces of silver, September 26, 2009

By Cookie - See all my reviews

I read this book because I wanted to know Michael Jackson the person, although it didn't feel right to pry this much into someone's private life. I wish I hadn't.

I had read Shmuley's thoughts about MJ on his blog and knew what was coming, and indeed he didn't disappoint. Shmuley's writing is not so much a reflection of who Michael Jackson was, but more a reflection of how judgemental he himself can be. Instead of letting Michael's words speak for themselves, he has to tack on his own interpretation to everything that Michael said and did. An interpretation that is judgemental, biased and sanctimonious to the extreme. He thinks he's so holy, he even puts himself above the court of law!

He delights in pointing out Michael's 'faults', and sees faults where there are none. I find it ironic that someone who always tried to see the good in others would seek help from a counsellor who always tries to find bad even in the good. This speaks more of Michael as one who always believed that there is good to be found in EVERYONE. This is not megalomania, as Shmuley would put it. It is love. Something that Shmuley is severely lacking.

Michael said that people do evil because they had not known love as a child. If their hearts were filled with love, they would not feel the need to hurt others. Shmuley obviously was not loved as a child.

He (mis)uses Michael's words and "failings" (at least in his mind) to illustrate his preachy "morality tales" of just what is wrong with society. (I wonder why he never writes about the morality of discussing other people's failings in public.) He even does this to some who are still living. If he gets a lawsuit out of this, he richly deserves it. Certainly there is a way to make a point without demeaning people like this. Crassness has achieved a new level. Extremely unbecoming, especially for one who calls himself a man of God.

Above all, it disgusted me how he could make public something which was shared with him in the strictest of confidence. He has not only ended his own career as a confessor, he has damaged the trust that people hold for the clergy and the counselling profession as a whole. Who knows if something you told your confessor might one day be blared out for the entire world to hear? Stripped naked and held up for the world to judge and ridicule? Leave a legacy to remind your children how you failed in life? Oh wait, it's not for the world to judge, because Shmuley has ALREADY judged and is asking you to part with your money to hear HIS judgement. Nice... Aren't counsellors supposed to listen without judging? And keep your discussions confidential? What's that sound? Oh, it's 30 pieces of silver tinkling.

One could easily write another book using Shmuley's life to illustrate what is wrong with society.

At the time of their conversations, Shmuley was working on writing Michael's speech at Oxford and a book for their child prioritization initiative - a project to encourage parents to make time for their children. Michael mostly talked about children, childlike qualities and how we adults can break our conditioning and become more childlike, to return to innocence. Shmuley used these conversations for something else instead.

Shmuley is also fond of putting words in Michael's mouth, for example, he uses 80-100 words to ask a question, then Michael responds with just an "Uh huh". This happens far more often than I can stand. If there is something good said by Michael, it is quickly obliterated by Shmuley's judgement and hubris.

When discussing spiritual matters, it is quite pitiful to witness Shmuley's complete inability to grasp Michael's far more mature understanding. Naturally, he overcomes this with more hubris.

In this book, you will learn more about Shmuley than Michael Jackson. Honestly, there isn't anything new at all in here for MJ fans. If you want to know Michael's soul, read Dancing the Dream: Poems and Reflections and forget about this dreck.

Shmuley's intent is clear to see. He is making a quick buck off his "dear friend". If anything, this book gives an in-depth view of the psyche of an MJ hanger-on. It is "friends" like these that sent Michael to an early grave. Don't buy this book and give this bloodsucker another penny!! (See comment #1 for details.)

If you're still in doubt about Shmuley's intent... If this was really Michael's idea from the start, why didn't Shmuley list Michael as co-author so that Michael's estate can get half the profits?

I truly regret reading this book because it's going to take a long time to clear my brain of all that filth.

**UPDATE** I just watched Meredith Vieira's Dateline interview with Shmuley. This was interesting because there were three instances in which Shmuley clearly lied. The first was when the interviewer asked him, "Did you betray his confidence in any way by releasing the tapes now, after his death?" and he said, not with a very straight face, no. The second was when he said he ended their relationship because Michael completely lost interest in their philantropic project. (The truth is that Michael dumped him because Shmuley stole money from the Heal the Kids Foundation.) The third was when she asked him where the profits were going. There was a distinct change in his body language and tone of voice in all three instances. You don't even have to read this book to know that Michael never wanted it this way. Shmuley has unwittingly made that clear.

Shame shame shame, September 29, 2009

By B. Dasilva - See all my reviews

I wasn't going to post a review here, despite the fact that I read this book in the store the first day it was released and put it back on the shelf where it belonged. But seeing as how Rabbi Boteach disabled commenting on his website before writing his inflammatory article "The Destructive Deification of Michael Jackson" I thought I would shed some light on why I didn't buy this book.

As someone who wrote an essay herself last week about why fans shouldn't deify Michael Jackson, I take issue with his straw man argument that fans are disgusted with this exposé because we would naturally revile any work depicting MJ as anything less than godlike. People aren't trashing this book because Michael's being "too honest." People dislike this book because:

1. It's not actually clear Michael wanted these tapes released to the public after they were made.

2. It's not actually clear Michael *made* the tapes intending to release it to the public in the first place. Certainly there's no evidence he wanted Shmuley Boteach to make money off of it. Boteach wants to release the tapes? Fine, release the tapes. Oh, Boteach doesn't actually want to release the tapes, but instead wants to write a book transcribing the tapes so he can make a profit and insert his endless, offensive moralizing? Oops, my bad.

3. His endless, offensive moralizing.

4. He purports to be a friend while essentially saying 'my friend was probably a child molester, but that didn't make him a monster! Here, let me show you the ways Michael was a monster....'

5. Inserting his unasked-for 20-20 hindsight opinions into the text as if the reader is stupid and can't find meaning in the text itself. The assumption that the reader is thinking what he's thinking about Michael's statements is just plain wrongheaded.

6. Conveniently forgetting the fact that Michael put Boteach on his list of "people I never want to speak to again" for a reason.

7. Boteach is exploiting a dead man who can't argue with his characterization of him. Whether Michael eventually wanted these tapes released or not, Boteach's still exploiting a dead man.

8. So much more

I really don't know who he thought his target audience was with this book. People who hate MJ don't want to read anything that tries to paint him in a sympathetic light, people who love MJ don't want to read a book that insults his fans as well as Michael himself (which Boteach does), and people who don't care, won't care either way. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

The Michael Jackson Tapes, September 27, 2009

By Mockingbird "Fly Fly Fly" (NYC) - See all my reviews

It is indeed sad that this brilliant artist's life ended so soon. It is also indeed sad that as respectful and humble as he was, no one thought life worthy enough to help Michael Jackson fight his addiction and heal his troubled soul. No one would put aside their hurt egos and busy lifestyles long enough to help a brother, friend, patient, child of God.

I, like the few who purchased this book to date, after having enough of reading the incredible news stories wanted to "hear it from the horse's mouth" some hint in his own words that would prove to me at what point Michael's life was spiraling out of control. What was the true cause of all this sadness in such a beautiful brother. When did we fail this extremely talented and giving soul. After reading this book...I guess we'll never know...

To be fair, I don't believe (as some say) what was quoted as Michael's responses during the conversations was not true because Michael had addressed many of the topics in past interviews. But I confess, as I turned the pages, my mind became suspicious about how quickly this 300-page book was produced in the two months following Michael's death. I could almost picture Dictaphone tapes from 2003 sitting in a safe or closet being dusted off and pages upon pages being churned out to meet some sort of deadline.

I find disturbing that the author writes that Michael was "...perhaps guilty of serious, terrible sins for which there might not be any redemption..." It is unclear whether he is inferring that the molestation charges were true; and if he is, he contradicts this thought when on earlier pages he defends Michael since having been at the very stage where it all began.

Another query, was when he encouraged Michael to call his father on a cell phone to forgive him for the abuse before Michael was to give a speech (written by the Rabbi) about forgiving your parents - instead of arranging quality time for both men to engage in a normal exchange which could have provided the opportunity for both men to come to terms with that time in their lives. A cell phone call just to say "I forgive you" does not constitute reconciliation - it does not mean a problem solved. Having Michael call his father minutes before a talk was indeed about validating a speech and not about helping a man reconcile with the pain that probably was instrumental in causing him so much suffering.

The chapter, "The End of Our Relationship", leaves this reader wondering why a spiritual advisor would believe any child of God was "beyond redemption". This was his reason for severing ties with Michael. Especially at the point where Michael was sending a cry for help after their falling out. The Rabbi writes, "Was he not the friend who, after I had invested two years of my life into helping him rehabilitate his, treated me as if I were a nuisance..." To this reader, that comment screams, he betrayed me! He wasted my time. I had to dismiss him from my life. That does not tell me the Rabbi was committed to "spreading the Glory of God" nor does his actions make it apparent that he truly understood what reconciliation meant.

As Michael's spiritual advisor, he should have acted as such...It is written in Matthew 18:12-14, "If a man has a 100 sheep, and one wanders away and is lost, what will he do? Won't he leave the 99 others and go out to search for the lost one? And if he finds it, he will rejoice over it more than over the 99 others safe at home? Just so, it is not my Father's will that even one of these little ones should perish." As a shepherd, you cannot rejoice - Michael is lost.

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Disappointed, October 2, 2009

By Julie S. Murphy "Jules" (Tyler, TX) - See all my reviews

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I had heard some of the Rabbi's comments after Michael Jackson passed away and when he kept bringing up the fact that MJ was "accused" of some terrible things and he wasn't "whitewashing" Jackson's sins, I lost any respect I could have had for him as a supposed man of God. He says that he doesn't believe Jackson did the things he was accused of, and instead of leaving it at that -- he continues to say in all of the interviews he has had about this book that Michael Jackson said he sleeps with boys in the Brashir documentary. Michael Jackson does not say that even in that stupid documentary. He says, "I don't invite children to come into my room, but they ask to and I tell them that if it's ok with their parents, then it's ok with me." Brashir then tries to make something out of the sleeping arrangements and Jackson is quick to say that he doesn't sleep in the bed, but that he will give up his bed to anyone and sleep on the floor. I get so tired of people dissecting his words to say that he admits to sleeping with boys when he did not. It is so sad at the people Jackson chose to befriend because this guy tries to "whitewash" the fact that he dumped Jackson when Jackson needed his support the most and because Jackson is not here to defend himself or to give his approval to what is being printed by the Rabbi, it is all the more disturbing. But when I heard the tapes with Jackson's voice on the Rabbi's Dateline interview, I wanted to read what he himself had to say and as has been posted in other reviews, Shumley is very judgmental and edits some of Jackson's dialogue. I only read the parts where Jackson was speaking and at the end where the Rabbi goes into a diatribe about Jackson, I just shut the book. So he got my $17.00 and I hope that he's happy and can live with his decision to be another one in the conga line of people trying to gain from his fairweather relationship with Jackson. It just makes me feel all the more sorry for Michael Jackson. These people who trash him even veiled with supposed caring and concern somehow are able to sleep at night and Michael Jackson couldn't. It breaks my heart for him on that standpoint. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Dumbfounded!, September 29, 2009

By C. Respress "MJFan" (Atlanta, GA) - See all my reviews

Wow, in a world of those who say they are here to help, love and support you in your time of need this guy shows he is here to make a buck! I thought when you had private therapy sessions that they were just that... private. Obviously this "Rabbi" forgot the first rule of privacy... Only the Rabbi is here saying that Michael agreed to have these tapes made into a book and released to the world...but why would Michael want that? Mike knew his life was already being scrutinized so why would he want his private therapy session released!? He wouldn't! He was with a "friend" "spiritural advisor" seeking help for himself nothing more. Michael would never have wanted these released on the air or in a book. Michael was in obvious pain and needed to express hisself to what he thought was a friend, confidant, advisor, spiritual teacher but once again as we are seeing Michael misjudged and landed himself infront of an opportunist. Shame on you Shmuley!! Support Michael and NOT this Rabbi! Moon Walk...pre order it it is a great book! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Forget This One, September 27, 2009

By Catzpaw "Catzpaw" (Canada) - See all my reviews

On September 25, 2009, three months after Michael Jackson passed, an interview with the Rabbi was aired on national television. Rabbi Shmuley claimed that Michael had given him permission to write a book, based upon the audio-taped, intimate conversations with the superstar that he now possesses. He does not provide any written proof of that permission, nor did he seek to publish these tapes and subsequent book while Michael Jackson was alive.

Furthermore, Michael Jackson distanced himself from the Rabbi, sometime before the superstar.s passing, which would indicate that there was a dissolution of the friendship and any goals that the two had planned to accomplish with one another.

Deeply troubling is the release of tapes about Michael.s very personal and momentary reflections regarding his thoughts and feelings about specific people in his life, for example, references made about his father, his sister, and Madonna. Would anyone really believe that Michael would want those very private thoughts to be aired on national television? That belief is not consistent with the very private Michael Jackson that he reportedly was, nor is he present to comment about the matter.

Equally troubling, Rabbi Shmuley contributed Michael.s demise primarily to the childhood woundedness that he never recovered from, even though Michael highlights how the media, consistently stereotyped the superstar in a denigrating manner, which Michael was deeply wounded by.

The Rabbi.s blatant oversight regarding the environmental forces that inflicted pain upon Michael, primarily through the media.s stereotyping stigmatization of the superstar, which haunted him throughout his adult life, reveals how little the Rabbi truly understood Michael.s internal pain process.

Dateline needed to research the evolution of the relationship between Rabbi Shmuley and Michael Jackson before agreeing to air this unethical and perceptually, as well as factually inaccurate .interview.. Perhaps, the network would have discovered that Michael Jackson no longer trusted the Rabbi, discontinuing his friendship with the Rabbi, due to the misuse of charity contributions that the Rabbi was entrusted to oversee.

To put it mildly, I am most deeply disappointed in Dateline, as well as in Meredith Vieira.s characterization of the superstar through her narrative. Lastly, I am most deeply outraged by Rabbi Shmuley.s decision to request that these tapes be aired, in order to promote a book that is highly questionable as to there being permission given by Michael Jackson. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Another one cashes in., September 28, 2009

By cinemagirl (Los Angeles, CA) - See all my reviews

Though the tenets that Rabbi Shmuley preaches are honorable, it is deplorable that they are clouded by his own judgmental and hypocritical nature. In this book, he laments that the youth of today are directionless, as children aim to be directors, not doctors, and rock stars, not rabbis; that the entertainment industry's stars have become false idols to the masses; that Elie Wiesel is literally pushed aside at a function when Michael Jackson shows up. But who put out a book on the tortured icon after his death (the dead cannot defend themselves)? Shmuley's own website URL pointing to the page about his TLC reality show reads (truncated): "/rabbi_counselor_tv_star." TV star? A reality show on TLC, the same network that airs "Jon & Kate Plus 8"? For Shmuley, it is clear that being an honorable rabbi known in his own community isn't enough -- he has to be a celebrity rabbi, and the price of that is the people's loss of confidentiality and trust.

I have my doubts that Michael consented to these tapes being transcribed for a book. Where's the recording of Michael agreeing to such an endeavor? Or the signed release? Or anything? Perhaps Michael viewed the rabbi as a counselor, thereby allowing the tape recording? The rabbi often interrupts the transcript to offer his own interpretation of Michael's words, which is to be expected, as it is HIS book and his viewpoint will be included, but the egotistical, "I write this not to brag" bits are obnoxious and fool no one -- he must remind the reader more than once that he wrote some of Michael's speeches, that his books (he name checks them several times) were bestsellers, that Michael said that meeting Shmuley was more enlightening than meeting the Dalai Lama. Shmuley's "Oh, no, I'm just an ordinary man! I'm flattered, but..." protestations are disingenuous and smack of false modesty. He professes he has no respect for Britney Spears and her sexualized image and its influence on today's youth, but he still stays with Michael in the hotel to meet her and 'N Sync. Smuley writes that he tells one of his kids later that Britney is nothing special at all. Judgmental much? Apparently, his disrespect was not strong enough to make him resist the lure of meeting them. His M.O. seems to be: meet the celebrities first, be congenial, then talk or write about them later.

Shmuley states in his book that he is friends with Uri Geller -- the magician/psychic who was busted by Johnny Carson in 1973. Geller was the one who introduced Martin Bashir to Michael, which culminated in the infamous and disastrous "Living with Michael Jackson" documentary. This is the same Geller who cashed in on Michael with his own "My Friend Michael Jackson" documentary. Shmuley also brags in the book that he's friends with Roseanne Barr, who recently came under a torrent of criticism for dressing up as Hitler while holding a sheet of burnt "Jew cookies." No one is perfect, and some respectable people make mistakes and poor decisions, but if Shmuley is going to sit on his pedestal to denounce Michael's actions and "tsk-tsk" after bits of the transcript in his book, then it is only fair that Shmuley himself and his own friends come under scrutiny.

Shmuley writes: "I had already noticed one of the biggest problems in Michael's life was the gravy train of hangers-on. If I were to ever become one of them, my very morality would be compromised." IF? The million dollar question is, what separates Shmuley from the other hangers-on? His bank account will be padded by the sales of this book. His name and face will be more recognizable given his appearances on "Dateline" and other programs to promote this book, further solidifying his celebrity rabbi status. There is, of course, no mention of his mismanagement of charity funds (the real reason Michael severed ties with him). He laments that Michael's downfall was partially due to him not having a solid support system in place (family, friends, church). How could he have that support system if even his rabbi/counselor/friend sells him out by writing a book, looking down on the star from his high horse? So the unfortunate answer is, Rabbi Shmuley is no different from the other hangers-on. What is sad is that a lot of what the rabbi preaches is sound and intriguing advice. He comes across as an intelligent and affable man capable of compassion and truly helping others. It is too bad that he is a wolf in sheep's clothing, seduced by the very industry and practices he denonces. He pats himself on the back by stating he declined Michael's invitation to his thirtieth anniversary concert, thinking that the friendship was irreparable, but whatever points he might have scored in doing so are dashed by the publication of this book. He writes near the end: "In general there are only two kinds of people: stars and planets. Those who give off an autonomous, inner light, and those who are forced to reflect a borrowed, exterior light." It is clear from this book that Shmuley found it necessary to borrow a deceased icon's light to make his own brighter. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Bought and refunded on the same day, September 29, 2009

By E.Cheung (Vancouver, Canada) - See all my reviews

I rushed off to the bookstore to grab a copy of this book because I wanted to hear Michael in his own words. I have refunded the book on the same day after realizing the author's intention to exploit Michael Jackson. There's no way I would support such an unethical cause. The author was supposed to be a spiritual advisor to Michael Jackson. This book contains transcripts of the conversations between Jackson and the author that were taped during their counselling sessions. I would think that it is illegal for a counselor to expose his client's private thoughts, due to the breaching of confidentiality. Half of the book is filled with the author's own (inaccurate) interpretations of Jackson's words.

After some research, I also found out that this rabbi/author is not a credible person. Jackson and the rabbi collaborated on the "Heal the Kids" foundation back in 2000-2001 and the rabbi was appointed the overseer of this charity. However, Jackson soon cut off ties with the rabbi after finding out that he has misappropriated the funds in the charity. In fact, the rabbi and his wife have been busted for misusing the funds of other charities as well. He was also ousted from his synogogue. Jackson and the rabbi haven't spoken since 2001.

If anyone wants Michael in his own words, there is no shortage of interviews on YouTube. The interviews with Geraldo in Jan 2005 and with Rev Jesse Jackson in March 2005 (conducted in the midst of the trial when he was under the most challenges) will give you pretty good picture of Michael's very stable state of mind. His interview with Ebony magazine in 2007 also revealed his true state of mind and undying passion for life. If you want to read a book, then Aphrodite Jones' book "Michael Jackson Conspiracy" is a must-read. Also, Michael Jackson's "Dancing the Dreams" provides an excellent look at his innermost thoughts through his poems and essays.

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"Dead Men Tell No Tales", October 1, 2009

By Amaranth "music fan" (Northern California) - See all my reviews

"The Michael Jackson Tapes" is Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's "gripping expose" of the "inner life" of the King of Pop. If one can sense the exploitation in the wake of MJ's death, it proves the saying "where there's smoke,there's fire." Michael Jackson speaks frankly about his upbringing, his spiritual journey, his children, his hopes for the future, his relationships with women--and the Rabbi adds a sanctimonious commentary to them. Had this book been only MJ's comments,it would be superior. Boteach puts words and ideas in MJ's mouth, taking advantage of his death.

Michael Jackson comes across as a sensitive,trusting,giving soul, who has redeemed himself despite childhood abuse. He isn't embittered and hateful. Unlike Boteach, he doesn't see evil as inevitable (taking the Holocaust as an example) MJ makes the powerful case that evils are preventable-on the other hand,Boteach sees atrocities as inevitable. MJ sees good as more powerful than evil. Boteach interprets MJ's belief in the power of love and compassion as a "messianic ego complex."

To make matters worse, Boteach refers to MJ as "beyond redemption" after they cut ties. What spiritual counselor would have that sense of bitter unforgiveness? Why? It shows a lack of faith in the Almighty. He claims that MJ committed suicide,despite the fact it's been confirmed he was in good health.

"The Michael Jackson Tapes" sheds light on the pop star's Jehovah's Witness upbringing, his sense of spirituality, his respect for all faiths. He is shown to be a deeply spiritual person. Tragically,the book exploits him in the wake of his death. Avoid. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

An Ungodly Agenda, September 26, 2009

By B. Vaclavik - See all my reviews

UPDATED 09/28/2009:

The Rabbi, on his Web site (www.shmuley.com), has removed the option to comment on his articles concerning Michael Jackson and the publication of his new book, and has posted an article entitled 'The Destructive Deification of Michael Jackson,' in which he essentially paints all critics of his book with one brush - those who object to 'The Michal Jackson Tapes' seemingly, in his view, possess an innate need to deify Mr. Jackson. We cannot see our asses from our elbows in our unshakable belief that Michael Jackson is god.

This is an insult to the American (and since I am Canadian, North American) people, and betrays a rather disturbing arrogance on the Rabbi's part. In one fell swoop he attempts to invalidate all criticism of his writing by insisting that those who don't like it are coming from a place of irrationality. I have sent an e-mail to the Rabbi, but do not expect a response. I will post it here.

Rabbi:

Re: 'The Destructive Deification of Michael Jackson'

I, like I believe many of the less vociferous protesters to your book, do not object to the publication of 'The Michael Jackson Tapes' as a result of a need to deify Mr. Jackson. I deify no man or woman, though I admire many.

I can only speak for myself. Mr. Jackson's words as presented in your book do not disturb me. I do not expect perfection when one is speaking candidly, and I expect to hear a human being. This he patently was. He was an immensely talented man, very flawed like the rest of us, perhaps more greatly isolated and therefore in the end possessed of a greater need to be understood by the many. My objection to your book is your use of Mr. Jackson's words in aid of a psychosocial critique of North American society. You hold him up as an example of the First and Longest Running Reality Show, a damaged walking wound in our culture. You had and have no right to pathologize a man you called your friend. You would have no right to do this had he been your enemy.

This is my objection to your book sir. I do not necessarily disagree with your analysis of our times as lacking in substance and familial bond. I do object to your use of a recently famous dead man to buttress your thesis.

Truly,

Barbara Vaclavik

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I know that many of Michael Jackson's fans, especially the diehards, will very much want to buy this book to read what Mr. Jackson has to say about a variety of topics. And if this book was what it purports to be - a presentation of Michael Jackson speaking to be understood by a suspicious public - I would encourage all to go for it. But it is not. At least half of the book consists of Rabbi Shmuley passing judgement on what Mr. Jackson has to say, acting as amateur (to say the least) psychologist, and attempting to tell the reader the meaning of what they just read rather than allowing for reader interpretation. It is this, the gall of the man, especially writing as a Rabbi and purported man of God, to pathologize his 'friend' that ultimately poisons the spirit of the reader. I felt contaminated when I finished this book. I felt that I had spent my hard-earned money contributing to the riches of the most mercenary of men. Please do not believe that Rabbi Shmuley is fulfilling a promise to a friend who wanted to be heard. That is not what this book is about. The Rabbi has two agendas here: 1. to strike while the iron is hot and make as much money as he can from the renewed interest in all things Jackson a mere three months (to the day) after his death, and 2. to exact a kind of revenge for feeling, at the end of their friendship, that Mr. Jackson had made him feel he had wasted his time as a kind of spiritual counselor. His feelings are hurt. I understand this. But his payback is unconscionable and ungodly.

Please do not buy this. Get it from the library, or find your nearest reference library that has it, and photocopy the pages on which Mr. Jackson is quoted.

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An Ungodly Agenda, September 26, 2009

By B. Vaclavik - See all my reviews

UPDATED 09/28/2009:

Rabbi:

Re: 'The Destructive Deification of Michael Jackson'

Truly,

Barbara Vaclavik

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Please do not buy this. Get it from the library, or find your nearest reference library that has it, and photocopy the pages on which Mr. Jackson is quoted. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Don't Waste Your Money or Time, September 27, 2009

By SusanB (USA) - See all my reviews

I must admit that I wasn't a fan of Michael Jackson, although I thought he was a great entertainer. However, my interest in him has been peaked since his death. The author purports to be a friend/confidant of Michael Jackson for a number of years. Can't come to that conclusion by reading this book! Upon completion of the book, I was saddened to know that Michael Jackson was a person who had so many sleezy people around him, the rabbi being one of them. This guy, oops, sorry, 'Rabbi' but the 'S' in Sleeze! Tell you what....I wouldn't go to his synagogue because if you tell him something in confidence, he might publish it! If you want to learn how to be an opportunist,take a page out of Rabbi Shmuley's life. He's a pro! This book was such a waste of my money and time. Don't buy this book! Wait until someone offers to sell it used for $.10....you will probably only have to wait a couple of months.... Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Hey? Where's MJ Permission 'On Tape' ?, September 27, 2009

By M.M. Billings (MA) - See all my reviews

Michael was a fragile, broken person. The Rabbi says "The last few years Michael had given up the will to live and was just existing." Well, all his life Michael had been used, and abused by everybody, including people who were purporting to help him or be on his side. I think one of his most hurtful `users' was this Rabbi. I also think that Michael probably distanced from the Rabbi because he realized he was being used, or realized how Rabbi really viewed him. Plainly the Rabbi did not have empathy and compassion for Michael.

As for who is the 'monster'. Sometimes it is the people who seem to function quite well in society who are really the monsters among us. And, sometimes they call themselves Rabbi or Pastor. This is not the only time I have seen a Rabbi or Pastor `tell all' about a person they have counseled. But when I have seen it they have done it while the person was alive - to save their own skin by throwing someone under the bus after they themselves were caught in a major wrong. So, ethics and pastors do not necessarily - or even often - go together. This Rabbi is selling Michael's private truths for the almighty dollar!

If Michael indeed `wanted' these tapes to be published so that the public would know the real Michael... well, I'm sure he was expecting it to happen 9 years ago, WHILE HE WAS ALIVE. I do NOT think Michael ever intended to have the tapes published. Otherwise the Rabbi would have published them 9 years ago. Course, he apparently couldn't do it without permission while Michael was alive, or he could have been sued. How `dishonorable' is it for the Rabbi to wait till Michael is dead, and and totally betrays him. It is people like this - people using Michael for their own gains - that broke this fragile, tortured soul. May God have mercy on Rabbi's soul!

NOTE: If Michael `wanted' these private tapes to be made public, why didn't Rabbi have a `tape recording' of Michael saying he wanted these put into a book (and when)??? Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Not a morality issue, September 28, 2009

By Cathy (Ashburn, VA) - See all my reviews

The Rabbi says this book is about a "morality issue". It is not a morality issue. It is the thoughts and feelings of a human being who is suffering from an untreated major depression. Depression is a disease with a high mortality rate that requires medical treatment. Taking prescription medications for emotional or physical pain is a symptom not a cause.

To profit off someone's death from an illness you knew he had and did not make sure he got the proper medical treatment for is unconscionable.

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Smelly Boteach is a crook, September 27, 2009

By C. Coy - See all my reviews

There are two good reasons not to buy this hatchet job by Rubbi Shmucky Lowleech: (1) Rabbis, along with other clergy, are bound by the rules of confidentiality. What they discuss or experience with people who seek their counsel are meant to be kept private. Even when those whom they have counselled or befriended are no longer living, the same rule applies. It's only because of this position of trust that people feel they can be open with members of the clergy. Clearly, Sucky Lowlife published this book, a mere 90 days after Michael's death, to exploit and tarnish Michael's enduring bond with his admirers and embolden Michael's detractors. (2) Absent a signed (by Michael Jackson) waiver of confidentiality, I can't believe Michael--known to be a private person--would sanction the splashing of his raw, unexpurgated comments, uttered EIGHT YEARS ago, on national television, edited in tabloid style by Dateline and Rubbi Shmucky, a disgraced rabbi! Therefore, I implore all Michael Jackson admirers to send this POS packin' and don't buy this book! Maybe it'll appear at the library or a garage sale, or you can read a few pages while standing in Barnes & Noble, but to lend legitimacy to this despicable tome is an affront to the genius entertainer and honorable humanitarian we knew and loved for four decades.

Actually, there's a third reason, which, obviously, Dateline failed to fully research before allowing Rabbi Smelly Buttcheeks a national forum => BOTEACH IS A CROOK.

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When people praise Lowleech for publishing this book, they're just not thinking clearly. Boteach is a publicity whore whom Michael kicked to the curb when Michael learned that Boteach STOLE from the children's charity that he and Boteach set up to serve the children Michael loved so much. Now Boteach is out there claiming that HE stepped back from Michael so as not to be "sucked into Michael's vortex of destruction." Humpf! Boteach, you're a fake and a liar. Folks, send a message to this scam artist and don't buy his book. You can honor Michael's memory by allowing Michael his private thoughts, undisturbed by destructive editing by the schmuckster who came as a friend and left as a betrayer--just like Martin Bashir. Those two are cut from the same cloth. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Michael did NOT want this published! Rabbi is a traitor!, September 27, 2009

By J. Murray "JCMurray" (Memphis, TN) - See all my reviews

The truth is Michael had the rabbi put on his "enemy list" in 2001 after the rabbi stole $100,000 from charity funds from Michael's "Heal the Kids" project. Michael was a broken soul who thought he could find "healing and refuge" in the rabbi. There is NO proof whatsoever that Michael wanted these conversations to be made public.

Anyone who has followed Michael Jackson knows that he never publicly critized anyone other than his father, and he had no problem making that known in two other interviews. In his interview with Geraldo that can be seen on youtube, Michael says quote "I've been an artist for 40 years and I have NEVER insulted another artist." In fact, when we watch clips of Michael over the last 40 years, he never had anything but kind and loving comments about everyone in his life other than his father. It is amazing the calm and dignity Michael always conducted himself with, even during his unjust crucifixion. To believe that he would want these "private comments" shared with the world is outrageous!

We cannot believe ANYTHING the media says, mainstream or tabloid, at this point, and it is an outrage when private conversations with a rabbi are published after one's death! Michael's fans will give him the peace that he deserves and not betray him by purchasing or reading this book! Shame on you rabbi and all of your judgmental statements....the time will come when you too will be judged! And by the way "rabbi", YOU are the one that is without ANY doubt....guilty of the unforgiveable! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Biased and disappointing, September 29, 2009

By Cynthia L "avidreader" (mobile,al) - See all my reviews

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I read this book because I was interested in hearing what Michael Jackson had to say. Instead, I read a biased interpretation of the of the 10 year old conversations. The Rabbi used snippets that he knew would cause controversy and shed a negative light on the troubled superstar. It's disappointing that a man of God could be so vindictive and petty. Don't waste your money. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

The spirtual egotist, October 2, 2009

By J. Leone "beagleladywv" (Dunbar, WV) - See all my reviews

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First I'd like to say that I was very excited to read Michael's own words after so many false stories have been put out in the media thoughout Michael's long career. However, I would have preferred to have been able to hear the tapes themselves instead of a book. I would like to hear his voice with his inflections, etc. As much as I enjoy reading Michael's thoughts, I cannot stand the messenger. With a friend like Rabbi Boteach, who needs an enemy? There are several reasons that I am so disgusted with the Rabbi and his book:

1. He said he didn't publish the book earlier because with Michael's arrest, subsequent trial- which, by the way, Michael was found NOT GUILTY on all counts- that no one would want to hear Michael's feelings and thoughts. Well, the trial was over almost five years ago! After he was found not guilty would seem to have been the best time to release this book. It is strange that he would wait for Michael to die before publishing. He probably knew that Michael would not want him to publish his memoirs since they were no longer friends. It is interesting that it seems as if Boteach has complete control over these tapes. Michael was a wonderful businessman, so I find it strange that he did not have some kind of creative control over his own words. I'm surprised that when they parted as friends that Michael did not ask for the tapes back. This is a mystery.

(FYI on the 2005 trial: To get an inside glimpse into the Arvizo family, Michael's accusers, get the DVD "The Untold Story of Neverland" which was a documentary put together by the videographer for Michael's defense team. You get to see Janet Arvizo directing the video showing the famiy's support of Michael- the very video she said she was "forced" to do.)

2. Boteach was supposed to be Michael's friend; however, after he was arrested, Boteach said he apologized to Elie Wiesel (the Nobel Peace Prize Laureate} for introducing him to Michael! Michael hadn't even gone to trial! What kind of friend thinks the worst of their friend without any proof of guilt? Let me make this more clear- what kind of person does not stand by their friend period- through the good and bad?

Why didn't Boteach speak out and say, "I've had hours of conversation with this man and he loves children and has done everything he could to help them all over the world. I don't feel this man is capable of ever hurting a child. That would go against everything that is in his heart and mind." Instead, he remained silent- just like most of the world did when the Jews were persecuted. Boteach did the same thing to Michael. He stood back and watched silently and let this kind man suffer alone. I think of all the people in the entertainment industry that have said that their careers were inspired by Michael's influence who also sat silently and did not offer support- Madonna said it best in her tribute to Michael at the VMA Awards show. They, and Boteach, abandoned Michael and they should be ashamed of themselves. Even though the jury saw through all the lies, there is no doubt that this trial took a huge toll on Michael emotionally and no one was there to help him pick up the pieces. It is almost too sad to comprehend.

Rabbi Boteach needs to realize that he is not the final word on how someone should lead his life. In his eyes, it seems that he feels he has all the answers- it is all about him. He seemed take it as a personal affront that Michael didn't want to continue with his plan for MICHAEL's life.

3. I also can't stand his constant plugs for his other books which he accentuates throughout the transcripts.

"I wrote about this in my book..." yada yada yada

4. In my opinion, Boteach comes across as extremely arrogant- "Michael, it is my way or we can't be friends." kind of attitude. He criticizes Michael calling him arrogant, delusional, etc. The same qualities I see in Boteach himself.

5. He said he decided not to tell Michael's family that he wanted to be buried with children around him because it would bring more criticism of Michael- but then he prints it in his book! He is just unbelievable! A spiritual advisor doesn't share a spiritual desire of his friend to see that he is buried the way he wanted? In my opinion, I think HE needs to be put on a "plan" to help him with his out of control ego.

Boteach needs to take a look at the man in the mirrror before he offers any degrading comments about Michael- a man who only wanted to do good and make our care of our world and our children our priorities. Michael deserved better.

Dearest Michael, you are finally at rest from all the media lies and we will never forget that you "loved us more".

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shmuley is a horrible man, September 29, 2009

By 3 italy (Massachusetts) - See all my reviews

First I must say that I RARELY leave comments on products; however, I saw the interview on the Today's Show with Shmuley, and I must say he does NOT come across as a holy man nor a respectable one. How DARE he take something so confidential to Michael and show it for the world to see! That would be like a Doctor breaking the hippocratic oath. I am in the medical field and if ANYONE in the hospital I work at did that, you would get fired and you may lose your license! Don't get me wrong, I would love to hear what Michael had to say, but there is no way I am giving that Rabbi my money. All that money he makes should be going to charity; how dare he use Michael's confidential conversations to make money. It really amazes me how low people will go to make money.....And yet again, here is the media covering all of the "bad things" about Michael and not covering all of the wonderful humanitarian efforts he has accomplished. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

do not buy this book, September 29, 2009

By Debra (Portland, OR United States) - See all my reviews

I find something inherently wrong with someone, especially someone who calls themselves a Rabbi, who considered themselves a friend to Michael Jackson to now release tapes of intimate conversations without offering any proof whatsoever that Jackson wanted these tapes released.

Michael's words are not troubling. What I find disturbing is Shmully's own judgment and interpretation of those words without Michael here to defend himself.

Jackson does not say anything new. If you are a fan of Jackson's nothing on these taped conversations is going to give you any new insight to who Michael was." Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

*I'll never betray or deceive you my FRIEND but... if you show me the cash I'll take it, September 29, 2009

By D'ARCY (QUEENS, NY) - See all my reviews

I read the opening chapters of this book and I am not going to finish it even though I have free access to it, because I find it infuriating. I'm thankful I didn't purchase it, but read an uploaded copy. To begin with, Shmuley who proports to be a Rabbi has decided to publish the innermost thoughts of Michael Jackson and claims it was MJ's wish. I doubt it! Michael could write his own book as he already did twice before. These tapes were made approx 8 years ago & now that MJ is dead he can't say what his wishes are, but I doubt he would want this snake of a 'Rabbi' to reveal thoughts said in confidence. This book is also full of contradictions, inaccuracies and lies.

Shmuley says,"The friendship ended with Jackson's second arrest on charges of sexually abusing a child." The inaccurate information is that MJ was arrested once in 2003. There were 2 accusations, but the first extortionist in 1993 decided to take the payout from MJ's insurance co. & run. Also the 'friendship' between MJ & Shmuley had ended before 2003 because the good 'Rabbi' missappropriated funds from a childrens' charity they had established. So that's a lie. This guy even takes credit for writing MJ's Oxford speech in which he talks about forgiving his father.

Shmuley talks about Michael's reckless spending & tells about a time when MJ rented a floor of an expensive hotel & had to return to Neverland for a few weeks, but never returned the rooms to the hotel so he could save the rent and they were just vacant til he returned. Look, I figure the man worked hard for his money he is entitled to spend it as he sees fit.

Shmuley goes on to say, "As far as Michael's materialism and decadence, particularly when we watch him on TV spending millions of dollars on useless baubles, is it really that different to the rest of us who have maxed out our credit cards buying junk we don't need with money we don't have, to compensate for an insatiable inner emptiness?" I think Shmuley was just jealous & covetous 'cause MJ could go buy any 'toy' he wanted. He reminded me of Martin Bashir who badmouthed MJ in his infamous 'documentary' when MJ went on his shopping trip & splurged. Talking about Martin Bashir, he as well as Shmuley Boteach was introduced to MJ by mentalist, Uri Geller. How did MJ get so unlucky to meet this trio who set about to rob him of his money and his dignity. The robbing continues even in death.

Shmuley who fancies himself as judge, jury & executioner, goes on to say, "There were also Michael's broken relationships. Two divorces, estrangements from brothers and sisters, and extremely questionable and perhaps even criminal sexual activities. Yes, few of us, fortunately, are guilty of such crimes." MJ went to trial 2005 & was acquitted of all charges, so what crimes are he guilty of? Last time I checked, it was not a crime to have two divorces or estrangements from brothers and sisters.

This so-called man of God needs to worry about his own soul. He needs to donate any profits he makes to charity to repay that which he took, and stop appearing on TV to push his miserable book & put spins on things that are not so. I hope the people that go to him for counseling are on notice that this snake will sell you innermost secrets for 30 pieces of silver.

**Title from Michael Jackson's song 'MONEY'. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Immoral Rabbi, September 28, 2009

By Judith L. Campeau - See all my reviews

This rabbi is the worst example of a clergyman I have ever heard of. He should have destroyed those tapes, since obviously Michael was at a low point of depression in his life. Depression is an illness and the rabbi should have known that. But no, he encouraged Michael to talk and talk, while he recorded, saved the tapes until Michael couldn't fight back, and is profiting from Michael's painful experiences. The world didn't need to hear this stuff. We need to let the dead rest in peace, and we need to protect his children from finally reading about these tapes some day and getting upset by them. A true man of God would have known how to talk to Michael, how to pray with him and for him, and be a trustworthy friend. I can understand why Michael wanted to end his relationship with this rabbi. It's too bad he didn't control the tapes. Please, do not buy this book!!! You can take it out of the library, or stand in the supermarket and read at least 30 minutes worth every time you shop, but don't let the rabbi profit from your dollar! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Is this "The Michael Jackson Tapes" or Shmuley's beliefs and accomplishments?!, September 30, 2009

By JTM "JTM" (NY, NY USA) - See all my reviews

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On the dateline special, Rabbi Shmuley kept referring to Mike as having a messiah complex. But through out the book, Shmuley is constantly judging/ psycho-analyzing MJ. He presents himself as helping Michael but he just seems too full of himself. He also kept circling the attention back on his self; "I think Michael sense that I had something he needed" or how he felt Michael was trying to impress him when Mike did good deeds in front of him, and Shmuley's steady repetition of his own accomplishments. Damn near the 1st 60 pages (which introduces how they met and their social interactions) was mostly about Shmuley. I wanted to learn more about Michael, not what Shmuley thought of Michael. So who's really the guy with the complex?

There are things that's not perfect about me but I try to work at it. And I bet MJ was the same way. And I'm definitely sure that Shmuley is not perfect neither, but yet he's judging EVERYTHING about Michael just like the media does. Then asks for others to judge MJ more charitably? The only difference between the media and Shmuley is that Shmuley is judging MJ from an insider stand point as a "friend"; he got past judging him from rumors (since he saw they were untrue) and instead judged MJ as a person from his EVERY move and word. When you read the book, you could tell that Shmuley was judging Michael before he got the chance to open up. And even after Michael opened up, Shmuley's constant scrutiny just seemed wrong and annoying. If Michael's not the child's messiah, then Shmuley is not a psychologist and he shouldn't be giving multiple synopses on MJ's every move. I'm sure Michael had flaws just like me and the next person, but that's something we ALL have to work out within our own time, without the constant pressure of being judged because we aren't living up to the standards of what others think is right or wrong. And how could MJ do that being the most judged figure in the world in his life as well as in death?

I understood Mike. He was innocent in my eyes. And I did love MJ the person, as well as MJ the entertainer (Shmuley claims people ONLY cared about MJ's entertainment qualities). I don't really care for celebs. But I do care for people who do random acts of kindness such as visit children hospitals regularly, build their home on the basis of making those less fortunate happy (Neverland), and donating time and hundreds of millions to charities. Who else is juggling multiple things like this just to see those in need smile without expecting something in return? MJ had a lot of fans who loved him for those same reasons. Shmuley missed that!

We are all judged but what I love about MJ is he was still so positive and his family/ true friends have nothing but good things to say about the content of his character. While everyone else says nice things then throw in little jabs. Is it really that hard to ONLY speak positively about someone without throwing your b.s. feelings in? Shmuley really would've impressed me more if he would've been the positive guy in the crowd, especially as self proclaiming to be "America's Rabbi." Imagine being in Michael's shoes with constant scrutiny, would you still have the ability to smile, be nice to people? MJ did, with dignity, class, and grace. I really look up to him for that. Finally, OK book if you want to read MJ's candid thoughts, would've been better w/o Shmuley judging him and making me feel like I have to defend myself and Michael's memory.

RIP MJ!!

UPDATE!! (for the people defending Shumley)

I saw someone say a Rabbi's position is to "counsel and lead" but that doesn't give him the right to be so judgmental, even in the face of dysfunction. He should bring himself down to the level of that person and help uplift them, not look down on them and talk smack about them when they're not around. Shmuley is human but for him to be a rabbi, I expected so much more from him. The last person I would expect to kick a man while they're down is a religious man/woman; (I didn't think MJ was down but if Shmuley thought MJ had that much of a problem and is talking about him like this in this book, he is disgusting). Even if Michael wanted the conversations released, the scrutiny is something I know he would've objected on. And the reason why everybody feels like he crossed Michael is between every conversation he writes these little synopses of what he thinks about what he thinks Michael is saying. Why not say it directly to Michael instead of giving harsh criticism when he is not around to defend himself? During most of the conversations he praises Michael but on the side bars he tears at him. I don't get that. Something just doesn't seem right with that guy. He is sneaking and according to the articles I've read about him and Oxford University, he is a crook and they don't want anything to do with him. Leaders in the United Synagogue even wanted him to resign from the synagogue he speaks at. That should tell you something. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Boteach exploited Michael for his own gain, September 28, 2009

By Catz "Catz" (New York) - See all my reviews

If you are a real Michael Jackson fan, DO NOT BUY THIS book! I know it is compelling to hear Michael's thoughts, but the man who wrote this book is exploiting Michael for his own gain. If you buy this book, you support his exploitation of Michael. I agree with one poster who said, "get it at the library" or read it at the bookstore and then put it back on the shelf! It is TABLOID trash and if you know Michael at all you know he said burn all tabloids and DON'T buy them or support them. I will speak up for Michael since he no longer has a voice- this Rabbi took private conversations and waited until Michael's death to publish his PRIVATE thoughts. He just wants to get rich off of Michael.This is wrong. Do not support this conduct. Michael deserves better than that. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Sorry the review is too long, but I really need to say this, October 4, 2009

By Shuling Ding (China) - See all my reviews

The Michael Jackson Tape

This book is very disappointing. I thought the author is one of Michael's friend, while being excited about Michael's conversation revealing his deep soul, the brutal judgement and massive negative comments toward Michael shocked me. Judging instead of loving, blaming instead of sympathy, the author made completely contrary remarks to the real conversation they had. It is such a sadness that Shmuley Boteach (a person Michael once believed his closest friend) could apply such strong judgement toward a vulnerable soul who could not be here defend himself anymore.

There are certainly some good comments about Michael in this book ,such as his gentleness, his generosity, his love toward others and his spirituality (later the author retreat this merit). And I did not mean that the author is a complete liar; instead I agree with some parts and even a few negative views. But I want to mainly focus on what I disagree, since I find that being agree and disagree with a person at the same time will finally lead to self-contradicting writings like what Shmuley himself did in this book.

I disagree with his criticism of Michael being 'shallow', and his desperation for public attention at whatever cost. He claimed Michael tried to be 'God' without any prove. It is also not his job to judge Michael being lethargy and beyond redemption!

When the author talk about Michael's deepness and Shallowness, he made some self-contradicting comments himself. He flattered Michael being deep and spiritual not liking other celebrities during the conversation. At the beginning of his book, he said "People who read it said they never knew Michael could be such a deep and inspiriting personality", including his own well-read friends. Later on he said Michael is "godfather of celebrity without substance, fame without foundation" . During the conversations, Michael said his purpose on this earth is to help Children and he made countless effort to do so regardless so many difficulties in his own life (including the allegations of course). I think criticizing someone else being shallow is a shallow remark indeed, especially when you could not fully understand one's deepness.

I felt outraged when the author said Michael purposely being weird just because he desperately need public's attention. He said " if it took being seen with a chimp or telling the world he slept in a hyperbaric chamber to get people to talk about him, he would pay that price....wearing a villain's mask, or grab his crotch ... he would do that too..." About the sleep chamber, about the elephant man, about the color of his skin and plastic surgery, etc, Michael had explained it hurt him when he heard those tablets, and he felt so bad about the way people had perceived him. I believe Michael wanted to be famous for his music and his love toward children, not the weirdness.

Did Michael ever claim himself or wanted to be 'GOD'? Of course not! He said he wanted to be godlike, and he hope he could know God more. Michael believe he has a special purpose to help children which is not contradicting to Christian value, but that idea might not be welcomed by Judaism law which heavily measured by this Rabbi. I believe Michael did not think himself a messiah but a tunnel to help children.

While the Rabbi claiming Michael wanted to be 'God', he is taking God's role to judge Michael 'beyond redemption'. From their conversation, Michael wanted to 'do some work' with him to help children, rather than needing 'help' and 'rescue'. The author had took the wrong role to plan his 'salvation' on Michael's soul, to set the criteria (accruing to his own moral standard) to judge Michael's spirituality, to make the rules to measure Michael's 'progress being a better person'. If Michael did not exactly follow Shmuley's instruction( Shmuley claimed how he was disappointed at that), it does not make Michael a person who could not keep promise; If Michael did not devote to Shmuley's organization as much as he expected (Michael used to help children in his own way), that does not make him a self-absorbed celebrity; If Michael have not show up in meetings on time, that does not mean he is lethargy. Because there are more things Michael need to do in his life except his collaboration with Shmuley, after all, it is not his major career he is known for. If he is so lengthy, he won't be able to achieve so many things in his life. When Michael stand in front of the 'high class' and 'most respectable' people speech, we should keep in mind that it is not his strength and he always felt shy about speaking. Michael like to sing and dance, that is why he became a pop star, not a Rabbi. Plus, Michael was not in a good physical condition due to his past pain. The reason that he did all that is because his love toward children are so strong that he could overcome his shyness. Unfortunately, his pain, his achievement and his effort were neglected by the author.

On the other hand, did Michael need his 'help' and 'rescue'? Even though he did need it, Shmuley said only Michael Jackson can rescue Michael Jackson. By that logic, there is no need for professional consoling and even doctors. If the demons behind Michael is so huge that even himself is afraid to be dragged into that orbit, then how do you expect one can heal himself in such circumstances?

At the same time, Shmuley said he needed Michael more than he needed him, I do not understand that part really. I thought the author is 'one of the world's leading relationship experts', a person of building relationship rather than breaking it. I do not understand why he chose to break his relationship with Michael even when Michael wanted to be his friend? Is it because he is afraid that himself being dragged to his 'evil orbit' without return? Is it because Michael did not do what he exactly expect him to do and being too disappointed? Or maybe he made Michael one piece of his work that he hoped to be successful, then the loss of sense of success overwhelmed the sense of friendship and love?

Whether you notice or not, I find Shmuley is very self-boasting himself across the book. First, he defend himself and made up excuses for his flattering toward Michael to avoid any potential judgement from the public. He indicated he is a person with 'class' and 'value' in multiple places. Second, he constantly claim that Michael was a better person when he is willing to receive guidance, and when he failed to do so, he became bad and empty. Michael has different personalities like everybody else. Everyone is different base on experience and what God made them to be. Do not force someone being something else based on your personal opinion. Do not judge someone to be bad when they are not in your shoes, because if you can not love, then stop judging. Third, he emphasized at least 5 times that he wrote Michael's most 'successful' speeches. I believe every presenter had some one helping to put speeches together. No matter what, Michael's speech is his own idea, he is not a puppy. You do not have to emphasize that so many times and try to take credit from him. Last, Shmuley use extreme word such as 'greatest', 'most respectful' to describe Jewish people and constantly quote Jewish scriptures. I am not anti-Jew, neither a racist, and it is understandable when one feel proud about their own race, however when you criticize someone like that, do not expect others will feel so comfortable of your own pride.

I smell strong dislike toward celebrities from this book(From Madonna, to Justin Timberline, to Britney Spears). When he told Nobel peace winner about his broken relationship with Michael, the peace winner said "I saw sparkle in Michael's eyes, but be careful about celebrities in general", I think here he does not mean Michael is dangerous as a celebrity, but Shmuley is dangerous for his potential to take advantage of celebrities. Ironically, no matter how he scared to fall into the orbit of celebrities, he is publishing this book about celebrities.

This book is not about Michael Jackson's voice being heard, it is about Shmuley's voice being heard. While his own children (who choose love instead of judging) crying over Michael's death, their dad was busying passing judgement and selling this book. If I were you Shmuley, I will only release the part of conversation with Michael (without so many comments) to let the world know who Michael really is. The money of the conversation release should go to Michael's favorite Charity such as 'Heal the World', etc. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Don't buy this book!!!!, October 1, 2009

By Sophie Lee (New York City) - See all my reviews

I am sorry I read this book, didn't finish this book. I read Michael's word and didn't bother to read Shmuley's thoughts at the end. I bought it because I wanted to read Michael's words. I wanted to have more of Michael. I am more convinced now that Michael was a genius, a spritual being having a human experience.

Shmuley, just like Bashir, interjected his own ruthless/moralistic view on Michael. Judging him, pointing out Michael flaws as if his judging is exempted from moral behavior and he calls himself a Rabbi.

Shmuley, like Bashir, stabbed Michael in his back. No wonder Michael ended your friendship!!!!

Michael I love you!!!!!!

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What a Joke!, September 28, 2009

By S. Evans - See all my reviews

The only thing true of this account is that Michael Jackson is speaking to the "good Rabbi" outside of that ALL is suspect. These accounts are edited by the author, filtered through his point of view and no need to draw a conclusion reader, Boteach will draw it for you. It's great reading for those lacking critical thought, all the work is done for you.

I actually would have much less issue with this under the following circumstances:

1. The tapes were transcribed in full w/o a minute left out, therefore context would not be an issue

2. There was evidence of Michael's agreement to have these released, a release of information, perhaps. Not just the statement, "it was Michael's desperate wish..." He did not seem desperate to me, he had not spoken to Boteach in 8 yrs!

3. The author shared a small percentage of profits with the estate, (at least the 20% that is charity)

The author has proven himself an opportunist, had he just written Mike's words and not given away his resentment by trying to "interpret" those words, this may be a different book. Hate has a way of rearing it's ugly head even when it could stand in the way of getting fans to give you their cash. Shot yourself in the foot on this one Rabbi #91 and falling LOL!

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This would be more detrimental towards michael Jackson, September 26, 2009

By Lisa D. Johnson (Port Angeles, WA) - See all my reviews

After watching the rabbi on the today show, and than again on 60 minutes, I came to the conclusion that this book, so called tapes would be more hurtful towards michael jackson, he is not here for rebuttle. To many people will be hurt by them expecially michael jackson. And after madonna's great tribute he would not allow these tapes to get out. And it gives the media, and people like Oprah more amunition against the greatest legend the world has ever know.what they would do his use his own personal feelings against him, and this is wrong on so many levels, it makes my stomache turn knowing that is just what people like oprah do. I personally will not contribute to that ever.I didn't appreciate Meridith vera calling michael a narccist, or delushional, there are so many things wrong with this rabbi releasing these tapes, it is wrong on all acounts, if he wanted to do attribute talk about his love for children in a good manner, instead of leaving the door wide open for speculation, saying he is not a "monster". come on people when is enough, enough already,He was exonerated on all accounts, and it is the public, media, I believe that helped put him in his early grave, because they would not let go of this label. Put the shoe on the other foot, and tell me how you would feel if this was you? you tell me that it doesn't feel good, well this is what michael jackson went through for too many years. Look at yourself in the mirror. Michael was more than a human being than these people who are willing to pick him apart, bit by bit. Let this man rest in peace, and please give him the dignity he souly deserves. A true tribute would be the barriers michael had to break down for his success, and how he came up with alot of these beautiful songs, and how he was a childs advocate before anyone else, this beautiful man has done more for the world than any one person has achieved. Don't read this book, please don't. Michael has lived his life, and has help so many people and through his pain and deep emotions comes wisdom and healing, and what we can do to help change the world. Also if michael wanted his inner most thoughts and feelings exploited,it would have been in a book by him. I understand michael jackson was in pain, but he expressed his feelings in songs, and poems so the whole world could understand the problems we are facing in the world. He was the most honest person I know, and had the courage to tell you himself, the pain his fame as brought him. So damit let michael jackson be, I about ready to start a revolution in the name sake for michael jackson, to a great man who has shown us we can make a change by looking into the man in the mirror, heal the world. This book is no better than some one trying to get 15 minutes of fame, by using michael jackson good name. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

This is more about Shmuley than Michael Jackson..., October 9, 2009

By Christina (Cincinnati, Ohio) - See all my reviews

After reading this book, I felt I needed a shower. It was so clearly a violation of confidence on the part of the Rabbi. I was shocked.

First, the questions the Rabbi poses are verbose and in most instances, self serving. They state the Rabbi's belief, and then ask if Michael agrees. Frankly, I didn't buy this book to learn what the Rabbi thinks, but unfortunately I learned more about that than I did about Michael Jackson's beliefs. I found it surprising at first (until I discovered the historic lack of character that this Rabbi has exhibited), that Shmuley lied about how revealing the conversations in this book were. I didn't find anything revealing at all. There was absolutely nothing new in this book about Michael.

Please don't dismiss me as some 'crazy fan', unwilling to hear anything bad or uncomplimentary about Michael Jackson. I am simply an interested reader. But so many things about this book -- and the author, a Rabbi -- troubled me that I felt impelled to write a review.

First and foremost, how could a supposed religious man publish this book? The timing is simply too fortuitous. The Rabbi alleges that circumstances in Michael's life made publishing this book earlier impossible, saying (and I quote) that his "reputation was in tatters." According to the Rabbi, these conversations were taped over a 10-month period, from 2000-2001. Michael Jackson's arrest didn't occur until 2003. Based on how rapidly the Rabbi was able to pull this book together after Micheal's death (a mere three months, I believe), surely he could have published it between the spring of 2001 and the fall of 2003, when Michael Jackson was arrested. It would appear that the Rabbi has been caught in an untruth, at the very least.

In addition, the Rabbi indicates that he was the one to "sever ties" with Michael, saying on different occasions that he was troubled by Michael Jackson's drug use; that he was no longer able to help Michael; that unless the Rabbi ended his association with Michael, Michael would take the Rabbi down with him; that Michael lost interest in 'legitimizing' himself... and so on. However, I read on the Fox News website that there were some troubling issues surrounding the Rabbi and donations made to the charity he and Michael founded. I don't have the article at hand, but as I recall, something like $100,000 in donations has disappeared and is unaccounted for. I certainly didn't know Michael Jackson, but I would imagine he would have been troubled to learn of this. It may have even led HIM to cut ties with the Rabbi. Of course we'll never know that, since Michael Jackson is no longer here to answer for himself.

The Rabbi's self-serving appearances on every television and radio show that will have him make me think that he takes his 'joke' about the 11th commandment ("thou shalt do anything for publicity") very seriously. I notice that, during these appearances, the Rabbi hasn't made mention of the fact that he has been denied a pulpit in the UK. I wonder if he might enlighten us as to why that is? It would lead me to believe that he's not in good standing as a Rabbi in the UK, which wouldn't surprise me, given his appalling behavior.

I'll reiterate: I'm not a crazy fan who deifies Michael Jackson in any way. To me, he was always a gifted performer and artist who, for some reason, was terribly cruelly treated by the media, treatment which I believe eventually contributed to his early death. And this man, Rabbi Shmuley, are continuing that cruel treatment even after death. He should be ashamed. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Disgusting, October 8, 2009

By M. Mihova (Seattle, WA USA) - See all my reviews

I walked into a book store and read a few paragraphs of this book - I was utterly disgusted to find out that this joke of a spiritualist is actually endorsing the accusations of the Chandler liars.

Need I say anything more ?

Don't buy the book and by all means disrecommend it to as many people as you possibly can. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

It's a shame for mankind..., October 8, 2009

By Greta Boete (Belgium, Europe) - See all my reviews

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To all the fans and MJ lovers : I apologize for ordering the Shmulley Book. I realised too late it was wrong. But I received it and started reading yesterday evening (till page 53). English, not being my mother language (I am from Belgium) I did not understand everything like exactly, although most of it was very clear. Many times I thought : this Rabbi is doing something unethically. He is not only publishing the tapes (did Michael really want that ??) but also giving his version of the time he spent with Michael. He did not know anything about Michael before he met him I supose, and he had a complete disrupted and false image of MJ. He thought (wrongly) he knew him after some time. In my perception, Rabbi Shmulley did the same like the tabloids. He should not have published anything. If MJ really wanted the tapes to be reveiled, then Mr Shmulley should have given them to Michaels children, or, put the audio tapes on internet, without any commentary. It is the people who read it, that have to drawn their own conclusions. The fans don't need this Rabbi to reveal all this junk information and his personal vision on MJ. The teneur in which it is written, seems to me like the author is really proud of himself, he want to put himself on a statue. It is a pity Michael ever met this man. When I heard the speech (Oxfort) of Michael before all this book business, I had some sympathy, because Michael thanked the Rabbi. But now, I can only find this man not worthy to be even on the heels of Michael.

To the Rabbi :

Why, Mr Shmully did you write this book ?? You insinuate a lot of things in your book, and Michael is not there anymore to defend or explain some things. And since you wrote the book, it means you want "money". Disgusting. The comments you make are not for publicity. It seems that you cannot draw the line between "public" and "confidenciality". Michael had the right to see a copy of this book before it was released. When he died, these tapes were not your property anymore. Bur yeah, you like to wait untill somebody dies before you drag them just like the media.

This is what I liked to share with you all...

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don't waste your money., September 29, 2009

By ilym "ilym" (nyc) - See all my reviews

Don't give not even a penny of your hard earned money to schmuley. The book itself is not anything to write home about..If you really that curious, just skim through it at your local book store. schmuly is is a greedy opportunist and the book is not worth the money anyway!! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Beware of this book!!!, October 1, 2009

By Vivaglam (Las Vegas) - See all my reviews

I bought this book the day it came out and I was very surprised by the content of the first 58 pages. If the Rabbi was a true friend he would not have used such awful words to describe his friend. In the first 58 pages when the Rabbi discribed MJ, I was sick to my stomach. He called him a drug addict, selfish, narcisistic, liar, having messiah complex, eccentric, obsessed with plastic surgery, low self esteem, depressed, and the list goes on and on. The conversation between the Rabbi and MJ was excellent, but I felt the Rabbi could have left out conversation when they discussed other celebrities. I believe this book would do more harm to MJ reputation then good. I also did not like how the Rabbi would give his own interpretation based on his conversation with MJ. To me the Rabbi came across as if he were holier than thou who seemed really bitter his friendship ended with MJ. After reading the book I decided I would not support the Rabbi or give him any of my hard earned money. I know this sounds bad but I read the book and returned it the following day to the bookstore. I've never felt so ill in my stomach after reading a book. This Rabbi is just plan evil!!! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Michael again Exploited and Betrayed, September 28, 2009

By Donnalee Reynor - See all my reviews

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Thanks to those who have already reviewed this book. I thought I might be alone in my thoughts. The only thing I have to add to the first reviews I read was that near the end of the book, as the Rabbi was implying that he believed that Michael Jackson was guilty of child molestation, that it was unfortunate that Michael wasn't found guilty because then maybe he would have gone to prison and been saved. For a man who was so concerned about people exploiting Michael, he exploited and betrayed him in the worse possible way. Making a judgement on something he knew nothing about, and claiming to have been a friend and then though Michael was found not guilty, ignoring that and betraying him. Everything said by the first reviews I totally agree with. Just another author exploiting and betraying Michael. Don't waste your money, or more important, don't give the Rabbi your money. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

A Tragic Author Reveals his Betraying Soul, October 5, 2009

By Coco River (mpls, mn usa) - See all my reviews

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The Michael Jackson Tapes is schizophrenic at best. On the one hand, delving deeper into the mind of the brilliant, gentle and loving soul of Michael Jackson is a true gift. But one pays a hefty price in this quest by having to sift through Rabbi Shmuley Boteach's continual editorials throughout that bombastically demean MJ's legacy. This book is nothing more than a means for Boteach to profit off of MJ, much like the scummy leeches Lisa Marie Presley so famously denounced after MJ's death. The Rabbi was given the unbelievable honor of getting closer to MJ than few people ever have, but instead of trying to honestly understand this genius in order to heal him, he squandered his time by using MJ as a means to further his own selfish goals. The condescending tone he takes with MJ both in the book's conversation sections and through his editorials is nothing short of nauseating, and the worst part is how he continually implies that MJ was a guilty child molester, despite the fact that MJ was found NOT guilty on all counts and testimonials of MJ's innocence abound on YouTube; Boteach even goes so far as to tell his readers that "Yes, I supervised at all times when Michael Jackson was with my children." And in another instance he proudly tells the story of apologizing to a Jewish friend of his the day after MJ's 2003 arrest for ever having introduced the two. Given all this, I have no clear answer as to how Boteach can call himself Michael Jackson's friend. Frenemy is the more appropriate term. I sincerely hope that Boteach will give the blood money he's earned off this book to the only people who have a right to MJ's legacy... Prince, Paris and Blanket. I wish I would never have purchased this book and lined this terrible man's pockets. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

breach of professional ethics, September 29, 2009

By Jean Holland (Tucson) - See all my reviews

This book is about a "Rabbi" who "reveals" tapes he recorded with Michael Jackson while serving as Jackson's spiritual advisor/counselor. There were 30 hours of tapes recorded, in which Jackson spoke into a microphone with this "Rabbi" a number of years ago.

The "Rabbi" makes this into a morality show and hopes that the public will benefit from the example of Mr. Jackson. That is why this is about the "rabbi" rather than Michael Jackson.

This is a profound breach of ethics.

Are we to think MJ just vomited for 30 hours into a microphone? Wasn't Shmuley in fact asking him questions during the taping? And MJ was responding as if he were in a private setting because he was with his spiritual advisor, even though yes, it was being recorded?

This was a spiritual guidance relationship. Make no mistake about that...and that frame absolutely requires integrity from the spiritual advisor.

Shmuley is actually a lot like that "doctor" who managed to let MJ die because the doc did not tend his post correctly. Just because the patient tells the doc he wants more medicine does not mean that the doctor should give it. Just because MJ SUPPOSEDLY wanted something in Shmuley's book about MJ and recorded all those conversations does not mean that a book should be published. Not when Shmuley was acting as MJ's spiritual advisor. These things are between the person and that person's deity.

Therapists, spiritual advisors...hear many things that their clients would never say publicly. It is a sacred space--where you are in a liminal space, working through things in private with another human being who is trained to help this process...PRIVATELY.

Those of you who may feel enamored with what you "found out" from the tape transcripts...please understand that this is coming from your response to the absolute spirit/soul level intimacy that occurs in this type of confessional space. It is a wonderful thing about being a healer/helper/guide. But it is not for public view. And the downside is, you also--in such professions--have to deal effectively with that person's deep challenges as a human being, and that can be frightening and extraordinarily difficult--it is why such people get supervision throughout their careers, and have professional organizations and alliances that can help them remain professional. HMMMM. Didn't Shmuley sorta drop the ball on that one?

Now let's really think hard about this. In one part of this book, Shumley's writing reveals his preoccupation with anti-semitism. This is understandable given Shumley's ethnic/religious identity, but he is pairing it with a revealing of MJ's most private thoughts. NO BOUNDARY here between Shmuley's agenda as a member of an identity group, and his role as a spiritual advisor.

Everyone, please understand this very well. When you are acting in a helper capacity of this nature, you must NOT think that you are being given the right to make an example of your patient for all the world to "benefit" from.

This is one of the most exploitative books I have ever seen in my entire life. Shmuley deserves professional censure.

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"Tragic Icon" ....... your no friend of Michael, September 28, 2009

By Julie - See all my reviews

Is shumley playing up to the negative press? Why not name the book; An Icon Reveals His soul in Intimate conversation. was it hard to get poeple to buy a positve Jackson book? But Aphroditie Jones did, it was difficult but she found away.

But Why now, if MJ really wanted people to hear/read his taped counseled session with the rabbi, why did'nt shumley write this book when he was alive? From what I understand, Michael liked to have lots of conversations taped, that dose'nt mean he wanted it out to the puplic.

I saw the dateline interview and it was fair, up untill the end, when Shumley proved to me that he was never a real friend to Michael. Just another parasite like his partners Bashir, and Geller. In fact thats how Michael met them

I saw this book at the book store, started reading.

Did not buy it because I just bought Mookwalk (Michael's auto-biography)

and there is nothing new that Moonwalk or Taraboreli's book has not alreay coverd.

it's basicaly a combination of snipets of both, except in conversation form.

I dont like that Shumley is profiting off of his "Friend",

unless all the proceeds from this book goes to re-start the official Heal The World foundation to replace the money he stole from Michael and the foundation, im not buying it.

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The book might be tragic, but Michael wasn't., September 29, 2009

By Kerryah (Port Adelaide, Australia) - See all my reviews

I happen to be one of those people who think Michael Jackson's life was more of a triumph than tragedy, despite its premature end and the various controversies and health issues that plagued him. However, as the consummate artist he takes a lot of topping. Ditto for his humanitarian philanthropy (which somehow seems to be overlooked in favor of tabloid-fueled controversy.) A lesser person would not have overcome all he endured and survived to plan and rehearse a comeback show which had been expanded to 50 dates by public demand, all of which quickly sold out. Despite the attempts of many in the media and other circles, the public still loved (and loves) Michael Jackson. Nothing tragic about that.

The Rabbi had these conversations with MJ with a stated purpose for which they have not been used. Instead, this book is about the Rabbi dissecting and analyzing conversations which were made some years ago, and making conclusions to explain what happened to Michael Jackson thereafter, and what he, the Rabbi, learned about himself from them, and how that all relates back to his faith. Which is all very well, but...

Most of his latter conclusions about Michael are quite obviously wrong when one takes into account the comments of people who were close to MJ in later years and especially the final days, who paint quite a different picture of him. While he could not see himself embarking on big tours, he was interested in capturing the creative moment through film-making etc (I refer to an interview given to Ebony magazine in late 2007).

One comment made by a recent associate of MJ's rings particularly true to me: Michael would not have wanted to miss out on seeing his children grow up. In the years when he wasn't performing, he was happily raising his kids, who had become the focus of his life. Even his planned come-back was driven by a desire for them to be able to see their Dad perform live while he was still able to weave his on-stage magic.

The Rabbi's depiction of MJ is however, a sad one, which would have us believe he was bent on self-destruction, and no matter whether or not it is a valid reflection of how the superstar was feeling at the time of their conversations, it should certainly not - I repeat, NOT be our lasting impression of Michael Jackson - with the exception of his feelings for the wellbeing of children, all children, not just his own.

However, if Michael was somewhat paranoid about the motives of some of his former friends, this book probably vindicates those concerns.

Save your money and buy the Ebony magazine Michael Jackson tribute edition instead. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Don't Read This Book/More Exploitation by another Leech, September 28, 2009

By Apple Head "Truth Prevails" - See all my reviews

So I bought this book thinking that I was contributing to a person who had Michael's best interest at heart and was his friend. BOY WAS I WRONG!!!

I JUST FOUND OUT ABOUT HOW THIS GUY STOLE FROM MICHAEL'S CHARITY.. AND HOW IT WAS MICHAEL WHO DUMPED THIS GUY...NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!

THIS IS A BOOK BY ANOTHER LEECH WHO IS TRYING TO PROFIT OFF OF MICHAEL'S DEATH?!?!

PLEASE DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK...

BOYCOTT BOYCOTT BOYCOTT

THIS IS MARTIN BASHIR PART II..AND IT'S WORSE THAN BASHIR BECAUSE MICHAEL ISN'T AROUND TO DEFEND HIMSELF

SHAME ON YOU FOR WRITING THIS!! HE TRUSTED YOU..AND PROBABLY THOUGHT THIS WAS IN COMPLETE CONFIDENCE..THIS IS LIKE A COUNSELOR PUTTING HER COUNSELING SESSION WITH A CLIENT IN PRINT..BREECH OF CONFIDENTIALITY..AND SHOULD BE ILLEGAL

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not good, October 6, 2009

By Francisca M. Casas "Francis" (Dallas, TX USA) - See all my reviews

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Honestly, I did not understand the book. It really did nothing for me except laugh at some chapters and wonder at others. Michael does not really open up to this man. Most of text that Michael spoke, had already been on the news, or Michael already talked about.

Michael knew better to open up to people about his most intimate thoughts. I don't believe all this so called taped voice of Michael being reported by so called friends of him. If I had been Michael's friend, I would never say anything about our friendship nor get on TV and brag about being Michael Jackson's friend. He was a private person and most of the people that are coming out saying that they were friends of his, were never his friends otherwise, they would not be showing their faces on TV just to get 15 minutes of fame.

One thing that I would like to say is this, Michael and God's relationship was a strong bond and many who loved him felt the presence of God alongside Michael, and those who hated him, secretly, wanted the same of what Michael had the, grace of God. This Ribbi has no idea how God works or who God is.

Michael was not a religious man, he just believed in God and that is all that God needed to walk alongside Michael. His faith was big and he was blessed by making his dream come true, to be known all over the world. Many religious people may argue this, but Michael was blessed with the spirit of God, the grace of God, and the presence of God. This is what his fan felt when Michael was close to them, the presence of God. Michael was not a saint, he was just an object who God used to let us feel his presence. I don't know if Michael knew this; I hope he did. God moves through the world in very strange ways and uses the strangest to prove his presence. Michael is with God now, finally rest in peace.

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Michael's words are worth reading, but don't buy, October 6, 2009

By Sweetie (NC, USA) - See all my reviews

Michael's words are so endearing, inspiring, and sometimes heartbreaking that they are worth reading. I love him even more after reading them. Though I agree with another commenter that a CD of the actual tapes would be better, so you could hear his inflections + the entirety of his words. On Dateline I heard Michael talking about how he met Brooke Shields, yet in the book some of that description was left out. Why? (more room for Boteach's judgments I reckon.) I would have preferred all of Michael's words and none of Boteach's.

Boteach's words are holier-than-thou and harsh. Don't read them at all. They're horrible.

And don't give him any money by buying the book. Get it at the library instead. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Heartbreak and betrayal, October 5, 2009

By Judy Hyde - See all my reviews

I should have read the reviews before purchasing this book. I was left feeling drained after reading the Rabbi's rants. I was looking forward to Michael's words but now I am not even sure they are his words. I do not recommend this book to any Michael Jackson fan. The Rabbi wrote ....."perhaps now he will receive a morsel of compassion". But not from the author of this book. I feel we should all write to the Rabbi and tell him what we think of his betrayal of a "friend". We must be kind, however, as Michael would not like cruelty. We don't need to stoop to the Rabbi's level. When does the ache in your heart go away? Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Religion and Psychology are Not the Same, October 5, 2009

By O. Marie "Stargoddess7" (Seattle) - See all my reviews

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This book is loaded with Shmuley's values, religious ethics and frustrations. He does not seem to understand how this slowly eroded the potential of his friendship with Michael Jackson. (It will also erode Shmuley's readership.)

The introduction, alone, is oppressive to get through - with all his "rebuking" of Michael as a person? Honestly! SHAMING a person into submission is not the way to work with an adult victim of child abuse.

It seems Shmuley's primary intent was to align and validate himself with celebrity. (No wonder he was on Michael's "hit list" in the end!) This read is like watching a cat cover crap in a cat-box. There is no vindication in selling this book; it's yet another vehicle to generate money off Jackson's death. Once you get through the introduction, you realize the only "redemption" here is Shmuley's attempts to justify his OWN guilt.

This book is clearly an example for people to learn, religion and the practice of clinical psychology are not the same. (Thus it gets my review with one star.) No one was able to help Michael get to the CORE of what was killing him. I think Michael's death was a long, slow, psychological one, of oppression, abuse, and exploitation. I WONDER WHEN IT WILL END????

Maybe this is the "divine lesson" being taught to Shmuley - through the person of Michael Jackson.

I think you oppressed him, and never managed, or had the psychological skills to HELP HIM get to the CORE of his real troubles. You over-rode him with your own values, your own inclinations to impress your beliefs and "inspirations", by writing lectures for him, etc. It's all about YOU, Shmuley! And that's why Michael Jackson (and your readers here), checked-out.

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Money! They do it for the Money!!, September 28, 2009

By T.K. Fan 4Ever "SusanneT.K." (Virginia) - See all my reviews

Michael's friendship with Rabbi Shmuley Boteach began in 2000 and ended in 2003. Rabbi Shmuley misused donations to one of Michael's charity called "Time for Kids". Now, after Michael's death, we are to believe. Michael would have trusted this man to put his words into a book. This is laughable.

If Michael wanted the world to know his inner most private feelings. First of all, he would have written the book himself. Michael wrote two other books, "Moon Walker" and "Dancing the Dream". Second of all, we would have heard about this book from Michael's lips years ago, not after his death by a man, Michael no longer considered a honest or trusted friend.

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Respect MJ's soul and don't support the "rabi", September 28, 2009

By A. Marquetant "AM" (California, USA) - See all my reviews

If any one wants to know the real MJ, just listen to his music, read the lyrics and his poetry, You'll know what he was all about and where was his heart and soul.

How pure and trusting he was and how innocent like children he trusted one crook after another his whole life and at the end died alone, everyone took advantage of him, including this so called 'Rabi", what kind of a religious man, takes advantage of a friends confessions and at the end passes judgement for his own glory, Did MJ really wanted all this in print? I really dout it, Does this ring a bell and remind you of bibilcal betrayals? it sure does to me?

If one good thing comes out of this book is that people will finally see who the real "rabi Shmuely"is. that's it. everyone who needs to know about MJ, already know that, we don't need a greedy Rabi's gossip book.

Why did he wait so long to come out with this, I'm sure MJ regrated all that he told you, He end up trusting another crook.

Ask the truth to whatever god that you believe in and be honest with yourself.

DID you really had his blessings to go ahead with this?

Let the dear LORD be the judge.

Rabi should listen to MJ Money song, he can learn alot and he shoud ask himslef where is his heart and soul. maybe only in his pocket. Rabi should leave DEAR MJ alone and REALLY REALLY search his own heart and soul. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Rabbi's lies and statements told out of context, October 3, 2009

By B. SAMPSON "lover of words" (Illinois) - See all my reviews

This book does not cover the entire tapes and conversations and uses only parts of statements that are completely out of the context in which Michael said them. The Rabbi had not seen Michael in several years, and Michael had changed his opinion on several topics. Michael is portrayed negatively, and the Rabbi is a liar (using only pieces of what Michael said and using them out of context is lying because the Rabbi twisted the words around to make Michael seem negative). Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Michael Jackson Filtered Through Hypocritical Religious Babble, October 7, 2009

By Mark Byron "markbyrn" (Orlando, FL USA) - See all my reviews

If you're expecting to get some personal insights about Michael Jackson, this book provides precious few and they are heavily filtered through Mr Boteach's ultra religious filter. In a blatant display of hypocrisy, Rabbi Shmuley has the gall to lecture his readers on society's unhealthy obsession with celebrity culture yet here he is writing about the most famous celebrity in the world and cashing in on his fame. Reflecting his own ego-centric nature and obvious stunted emotional state, Rabbi Shmuley states that Michael Jackson's most redeeming quality was to instruct the Rabbi to look his children in the eye when he tells them he loves them. It's no wonder that the Rabbi was unable to help Michael Jackson and abandoned him when he was no longer able to manipulate him. Perhaps the only lesson to be learned from this book is that Michael Jackson had few friends that cared for him unconditionally, and Rabbi Shmuley was not a friend but a religious con artist who's now dancing on Mr Jackson's grave for a fistful of dollars. To read this book is an exercise in self-flagellation as the Rabbi's writing style is homiletic, vainglorious and patronizing with dollops of religious 'wisdom' to insult those with any hint of rationalism. While it would be interesting to listen to the unedited tapes that were recorded with Mr. Jackson, this book is a sad distillation and would be more aptly titled, 'Rabbi Shmuley intimately reveals his hypocritical religiosity and avarice.' Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Don't call him Rabbi!, October 5, 2009

By R. W. Smith (Takoma Park, MD United States) - See all my reviews

I've read the reviews and saw a few interviews. A true clergyman would never betray the confidence of someone he counseled. After reading Dancing the Dream, there's no doubt in my mind that Michael Jackson was more in tuned with his soul than Shmuley. Shmuley has betrayed Michael and the title 'Rabbi'. Please dont' buy this book. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

I want my money back!, October 4, 2009

By JF "JF" (CA) - See all my reviews

I wish I had read the reviews before purchasing this book. I feel duped! Shmuley Boteach calls himself a RABBI, a close friend, a spiritual guide? I say, "Green eyed monster". Very evil and mean spirited. I get the impression that he's upset that Martin Bashir beat him to the punch line, Smuley is cut out from the same mold as Martin Bashir! He tried to leave the reader thinking that maybe MJ was guilty of the 1993 fiasco. Really? I was so excited about the book, thinking, FINALLY we get to know about Michael from MJ's own words...... as it turns out, it's more about Shmuley bashing MJ. I would return the book in a heartbeat if I hadn't highlighted areas of statements from MJ. Very disappointed. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Lies,lies, and more lies...., October 10, 2009

By darksaber (USA) - See all my reviews

Do not believe what you read in this book, if you read this one. Its another smear one would expect from a cheap tabloid paper. Its full of shady contradictions, and I wonder about the authors real motivations behind the publication of this book.

The author disabled comments on his website, probably anticipating a deserved backlash on this book. Don't waste your money!! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

This May Be The Worse Yet!, September 26, 2009

By J. Wilson "Old School" - See all my reviews

I saw the Diane Sawyer interviewed and was sickened by it!! It was so hard to watch, but anything MJ fascinates me. Michael Jackson's betrayal of his most private thoughts, by a religious figure, is criminal. More proof of why MJ could trust no one. All fans and empathizers of Michael Jackson.. Stand Up and refuse to buy any of the exploited material. It will be hard to escape, too. I recently purchased The Vault. I was extremely pleased until I opened personal documents not necessarily open for the public....his shoe patent (Smooth Criminal) and death certificate. Some things should not be available for public perusing, but thats strictly my opionion. His life being spread out as naked exposure is just not right.

I'm so sorry and sad for his children, family, and anyone who loves him to have to endure all this sad and sickening exposure. Micheal was all about love, love, love, and compassion. Please help to keep MJ's message flowing around the world.

That 1 star rating is because I have to rate to participate. The book doesn't deserve any stars.....it should be removed from Amazon's stockpile. I know I'm evoking censorship, but I hate this one! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

don't buy, September 26, 2009

By M. Ames - See all my reviews

Saw the interview on Dateline with Rabbi Boteach and lost interest in his book quickly. This is an attempt to exploit Michael Jackson once again. He isn't even donating all proceeds to a charity Michael would like. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Don't waste your money, it doesn't reveal anything!, September 28, 2009

By Beatriz Mirta Kajt - See all my reviews

First of all the writer is not a spiritual advisor or anything similar, he is just a merchant. He wants to make money at the expense of Michael Jackson and his fans, who are millions ($$$$) and love to have any memories of the greatest soul who ever existed.

Second, what this person did is take the personal comments of Michael Jackson and interpreted with his own thoughts, which deform the real meaning of them.

Third he is an unforgivable BETRAYER!! he is publishing the intimate conversation he had with MJ working as his spiritual counselor. He broke all the rules of confidentiality!! particulary for a rabbi. (what a shame for our Jewish Community!).

He doesn't reveal anything because most of people know about his painful life (Mr. Obama mencioned this when MJ died), and the bad relationship with his father.

Michael published freely himself.

He says Michael wanted this to be publish, why this man waited until Michael's death??? he just gives excuses to reply that. The truth is Michael Jackson was completely dissapointed of this "rabbi", this man was in the black list of Michael, it must be a reason, isn't? Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK, September 27, 2009

By happyforever (USA) - See all my reviews

To all the MJ's fans or people who want to know MJ. DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK.

This person is another so call "friend" tried to profit from Michael.

He kept saying he wants people to know Michael more. Then, why not do this before MJ died???

Through his interview he gave to Dateline. He just pretented he cared for MJ.

But he twisted MJ's world and tried to intepreted in other way.

This is just another Martin Bashir's documentary. We already know how cut and paste and wrong interpretation can do.

It's sad that MJ can fight back for Bashir's crap, but now he is dead he can't do anything about it.

But all the fans out there can do it for him. DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK. We need to stop this.

The most horrible part that's more scary than Bashir's "living with Michael Jackson" is that this man pretened he feels sympathy for MJ. This make people who don't know the truth wants to buy this book. They will believe what he said. The truth is he is just tried to gain fame and money from MJ.

Go to do some research of this man. You will know you can't trust this person. I am saying again. PLEASE DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

How could anyone do this to a friend?, September 30, 2009

By Me Myself & I "violin learner" - See all my reviews

I am not an MJ fan... and this is actually not a review, simply because I would never buy this book... yet I am so outraged by the notion of it that I had to do this... What is the world coming to? As one reviewer noted, there is nothing new in this book, it is only the shock value added to it that is intended to propel it and make this Rabbi some good money before his time runs out... I am even wondering whether some of the "revelations" in "Living with MJ" Michael made on purpose, so by the time Shmuley comes up with this it is already old news. And old news it is, indeed, except for how low a human being can stoop in order to make a buck. It however brought tears to my eyes to see how many people came here to post a comment as a matter of principle - it is heart-warming. Please do not buy this book. Enough, already.

I happened to hear Mr. SB deliver his explanation as to why he did not help Michael: he would have been dragged into the destructive vortex. So I guess he is not a spiritual counselor because he wants to help you, he is a spiritual counselor because he wants to make tapes of you and then sell them at their most profitable. I do not see, then, why anyone would want to give even a penny to this person. Put him next to this: when Michael wanted to be the best entertainer, he was, when he wanted to be a best friend, he was, when he wanted to have children, he had, whom he treated the best way he could. And then have Michael judged by SB. I hope not many will fall for this betrayal of trust and of values, so that the Rabbi will finally learn his lesson. There are many entries to the destructive vortex and it seems the Rabbi found his own long ago. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Waste of money, September 26, 2009

By Mellow Rose "Mellow Rose" (sunrise, FL USA) - See all my reviews

This book by a disgraced rabbi (suspected of pilfering money from a children' charity) is an attempt at cashing in at a former friend's death.

The disgraced rabbi should go to confession, the misleading title alone gave me pause. The book is being hyped as a "Conversation between michael jackson and his rabbi", when in fact it is a dated opinion piece on MJ, 9 years ago. This does not give fans any depth into the singer's life at the time of his passing.

I wish I could give it a "zero star"....I want my money back.

To folks thinking of buying this piece of (fill in your choiced word)....better get it from a library. But I would suggest you stay away from it altogether and not waste your precious time with this work of fiction. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

those who love and care about MJ, do not buy this book, October 7, 2009

By F. Browning (global citizen) - See all my reviews

I don't even trust the transcriptions of MJ's comments by this person who betrayed him, and is taking the opportunity of his death to feed off his fame. Those who love MJ: don't read the tabloids, and don't buy this book. We need to use our energies to remember him as the artist, humanitarian, and angel on earth that he was. G-d rest his sweet soul. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Another Martin Bashir, October 10, 2009

By Angela Smitherman "music" (Georgia) - See all my reviews

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I am a 71 yr. old retired nurse who did not have the money to waste on this libelous book.

Rabbi, you are a disgrace to your religion.

I think this book is written by someone who wants revenge.. you are so angry

because you were removed from a "kingdom" that you had gotten used to. Yes, you were banned from Michael Jackson's kingdom and you are still very angry.

God will punish you one day Rabbi.

You owe me $17.00 for luring me into buying this book.. luring me by going on TV shows and pretending that you felt that Michael was a good and loving man (which he was).. I bought the book and I had to read all this venom from an angry man..a jealous man.

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*Not worth your money*, September 30, 2009

By Zachary Sullivan "Z.Sullivan" (USA) - See all my reviews

Hmmmm...where to begin...ah!

Let's see, I wanted to read this but then after reading a chapter online it became annoying! Seriously, after every single sentence that Michael says, the Rabbi writes his interpretation on what he thinks Michael means. He paints a picture of Michael that is incredibly false. Don't get me wrong, I love how its Michael in his own words but come on Rabbi! We dont need your analysis on every thing he says.

Second the Rabbi is a greedy back-staber. Let it be known that Michael wanted this interview to be published but, the Rabbi didn't publish it do to Michael being charged with child molestation. So no one would buy it. But after Michael's death, he sells it because everyone was buying anything that said "MICHAEL JACKSON" on it. How dare you call him your friend Rabbi! How dare you even say this is a bestseller. Oh pa-lease! No one's gonna buy it because your a greedy back-staber! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

NOT BUYING!, October 1, 2009

By J. Lake - See all my reviews

I'll admit that I was slightly interested in buying this book so I could hear things from Michaels own mouth. But after reading some of the other reviews and comments on this book I am SO GLAD that I didnt get it. Anyone that is doing wrong by Michael is not getting any help from me. Michael was so trusting and so loving and for someone to betray that trust and try to make a dime from it is just pathetic! NO SUPPORT FROM ME SHMULEY! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

EPIC FAIL!, September 29, 2009

By K.S. "avid reader from the east coast" (NJ USA) - See all my reviews

Even though I'd rather get an unnecessary root canal then buy or read this book I will still leave a 'review' anyway.

Rabbi Schmuley is a fake and a phony and there is a reason Michael stopped associating with him. This man is just another leech who is trying to make money off of him.

He has a special place on the SITDOWNANDSHUTUP list because he is another one lamenting about MJs drug use but never lifted a finger to help.

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Untitled, October 6, 2009

By Snow (Hawaii) - See all my reviews

I skimmed through this book after reading excerpts from web-based articles.

I was shocked that the book is dedicated to Michael Jackson's three children because the book is highly critical of their father's decisions, including the ones with respect to Debbie Rowe and the author voices strong judgments about Mr. Jackson throughout the book. It would have been less of a shock if the book were dedicated to Michael Jackson's fans all around the world since the Rabbi claims that Mr. Jackson wanted his fans to know the real person.

If the Rabbi wanted to provide spiritual advice to Mr. Jackson, he would have helped him make informed decisions and he would not have simply told him what is "right" and what is "wrong" based on his own faith, beliefs and values. I got the impression that the Rabbi was putting words in Mr. Jackson's mouth or interpreting the conversation toward his own point of view. For instance, he told Mr. Jackson that he must marry again if he wants to have more children. Mr. Jackson seemed to think adoption was an answer for him following two bad divorces and being that his wounds from his second divorce involving Ms. Rowe appeared to be still fresh, at the time of the interview. The Oxford speech for Heal the Kids that Mr. Jackson delivered was written by the Rabbi and is not necessarily reflective of Mr. Jackson's feelings about the abuse he suffered. It seems interesting that Mr. Jackson injured his foot just prior to giving that speech. It is not surprising that Mr. Jackson may have fled from the Rabbi's counsel for this reason alone and returned to his self-destruction ways, according the Rabbi. That type of counsel may have brought more harm than good; it did not give Mr. Jackson inspiration and he may have felt that he was a "bad person".

Maybe Michael Jackson was in favor of having his interviews with the Rabbi published at one time, but he may have changed his mind sometime after. We cannot be sure. But, we do not know for certain that after his death, Michael Jackson cannot tell us how he felt or what he wanted regarding his taped conversations with the Rabbi.

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Disgusting, October 5, 2009

By A. Carr (United States) - See all my reviews

I am sickened that a Rabbi would try to profit from the death of anyone. Very sad. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Michael said," don't repeat that", so Shmuley writes a book?, October 1, 2009

By Pamela Alexander-Beutler (Daly City, CA United States) - See all my reviews

Fist of all, this review received a star because Amazon made me give it that much. Secondly, this is actually an anti-review. I listen to a couple of the audio clips and in each of them Michael asked Shmuley NOT to repeat him. So Shmuley writes a book? If he was actually Michael's friend then he lied to him. So why would Shmuley not lie to us? I have one word for this book opportunistic. This book hurts the Jackson family and insults true Michael Jackson fans. For shame. I won't read this book. Shmuley looks like just someone else trying to cash in on Michael Jackson's name. I bought Moonwalker instead. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

this is not a review, September 30, 2009

By storeugle (denmark) - See all my reviews

I just want to add to the one star rating - isn't it about time that ratings should include a BOMB!!! I have no intentions of buying or reading the book - the title alone "....reveals his soul in intimate conversation" makes it a scandal that it is published at all - i can't imagine that is legal - it is certainly highly, HIGHLY unethical.

It is not to be believed what some people will do to make a buck.

I hope someone in the jackson-estate drags the rabbi's sorry behind into court!

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$$$ ANYTHING FOR MONEY $$$, October 9, 2009

By moonsurface (Miami, FL) - See all my reviews

This book is a clear violation of "ETHICS" because of the audacity that this rabbi has to publish "PRIVATE" counseling sessions he had with MJ 10 years ago...

This has nothing to do with the context of the book itself but, more with the "MORAL" implications that comes with this act...

Let me be clear that I never purchase this book. I read the online version only... It is my believe like many others here that rabbi is only doing this for "MONEY"!!!

The online version of the book does not contain any of the judgmental bias comments that many have express about the rabbi. However as I was reading the "suppose it transcripts" I will call it suppose because, the rabbi has only provided sound bites of the tapes and not uncut unedited versions???

From the beginning of the conversation you feel like you are invading the privacy of Michael Jackson this is very unethical. Yes I'm guilty because I wanted to hear MJ voice but, I did not hear his voice because these conversations are in print and not in audio???

Let me just say that at times I felt like I was ease dropping on "PRIVATE" counseling sessions with MJ and the rabbi. Many times over MJ tells the rabbi I hate to say this on tape!!!

I agree with another review that if these tapes where done with the intent to publish a book the time line is curious. The rabbi had plenty of time to publish the book while MJ was alive but did not???

He claims he ended the friendship but it was MJ that ended the friendship not him!! He also claims he did not publish this book because the world was not sympathetic to MJ after the 2003 ordeal??? But if they parted ways in 2001 he had 2 years to publish this the book???

This is a clear indication that these tapes where "NEVER" meant for the public!!! This rabbi was MJ's spiritual advisor and counselor a member of the clergy how can he betrayed MJ this way??? Members of the clergy can not publish conversations made in counseling sessions. It is a clear violation of trust and ethics???

Then he claims to have an in site into MJ's psyche before his death but how could he, he had no communications with MJ for nearly 10 years???

The primary reason the book was not publish when MJ was alive is simple MJ would have sued the rabbi for violation of his privacy and ethics. The rabbi has not been able to provide a written authorization by MJ for publication???

It is a shame that after Michael's passing this rabbi is trying to cash in on the friendship they once had! Michael was right he could not trust anyone not even a rabbi how sad!!!

Please do not contribute to the rabbi's unethical behavior if you want to read the book. Do it with caution and don't believe every single word in print as been what was said on tape???

Take the book out of the library or read it online, go to the bookstore and read it there but do not contribute to the rabbi's pocket!!!

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Beware of Lucifer in Rabbi's clothing!, October 11, 2009

By notAyesperson "Always in search of good books" - See all my reviews

This Rabbi is a liar and proported thief! I hear he stole money from an organization that Michael and he belonged to. This man is extremely judgemental, and I think he was not only jealous of Michael Jackson but used Michael to further his own 15 minutes of fame. He will never be as popular as MJ. He is another Bashir. Don't believe a word this man says! I don't trust this man as far as I can throw him. The biggest mistake Michael continously made throughout his illustrious and beautiful life was that he trusted disgusting people like this too much. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

This is not a review. It's a warning!, September 30, 2009

By Pattanaorn - See all my reviews

I know it isn't quite right to add a comment, not a review, here. But I just want to share something as a warning to everyone, before anybody would waste their money buying this toxic garbage.

Isn't it a shame? Distorting your good friend's story and selling in exchange of money. Look at the way he wrote this book and the way he talked about this friend of him. Isn't it a shame, Boteach? And you still call yourself his "friend"?

All I can comment about this book is that ... it's disgusting. And it's also worthless, totally worthless! I never thought of wasting my money or wasting my time reading it! Look at the way he tried to promote this book by saying bad things on his poor friend, MJ , is this something a good friend does to his friend? Nah, I don't think so.

Again, this book is garbage and yet toxic. Don't even think of touching it. This is a warning! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Be careful who's your friend !!, September 30, 2009

By Vivian Nguyen "V. Ng" (Texas, USA) - See all my reviews

I'll try to make it short. Michael Jackson was alive for 4 years after the trial in 2005. I was just wondering if he ever wished all of these to publish, and why didn't his "friend" Rabbi help him to publish it back then? So you consulted or had session with your spiritual counselor couple times and the counselor just recorded your conversation and sell it one day. Because when Michael Jackson was alive this kind of books would not sell much. However, after Jackson's passing his rabbi friend decided to make money off of emotional purchasing fans. How about releasing this book around April this year when Michael announced his last worldtour. Ummm, not a good idea because if he sucked at his concerts your books could not sell either right Rabbi? Uri Geller who introduced once this Rabbi to ruin the King of Pop's life, then to make sure he was totally ruining, he again introduced Martin Bashir to Michael Jackson. What a friend! RIP Mr Jackson. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

The Rabbi as the Voice snatcher! Shame on him!, October 11, 2009

By Ronam (Oakland, Ca) - See all my reviews

The Rabbi as the Body Snatcher!

I watched the Rabbi on the Larry King program and there was no doubt in my mind that the audiotapes were recorded without Michael Jackson's knowledge. Larry asked the Rabbi:

1. Would it not be considered betrayal for the Rabbi to publish the recordings a whole decade after Jackson terminated any relations with the Rabbi?

2. The Rabbi in order to dismiss any doubts that the tapes were recorded with Michael Jackson's permission indicated how Jackson was holding on the micas he spoke. Larry then asked the Rabbi if that were the case why was the sound quality so poor. The Rabbi replied it was because the tapes were old. Excuse me?

The only person who benefits from Jackson's voice theft is only the Rabbi!

The Rabbi keeps informing all that he was Jackson's spiritual mentor? But Jackson was a Christian until the every end when he became a Muslim? Why would a Christian or a Muslim require a Jew as a 'spiritual Mentor'? Can the Rabbi mention any Christian or Muslim who is the Rabbi's 'spiritual mentor'? Of course not! This is as evil and as demented as it gets. The good Rabbi stole Jackson's voice and kept if for right time. The right time did arrive big time for the Rabbi. It smells of stench.

SHAME ON THE MONEY-HUNGRY RABBI!

Beware - Not All It Seems To Be, October 11, 2009

By Katsmyth (Louisville, KY United States) - See all my reviews

When I heard Michael's voice on the rabbi's interview on TV, I knew I had to read this book. I was so desperate to read Michael's own words and thoughts - but was so offended by the way Boteach constantly puts Michael down, pontificates and judges him in his remarks after each section of questions to Michael. He doesn't miss many chances to pour out his condescension and disrespect. For a so-called man of God, someone who supposedly should have been there to help and assist a friend and fellow traveler on this earth, as we all are, I thought it very callous and cavalier of him to supposedly drop Michael like a hot potato when Michael didn't live up to his views on how he should live his life - if that truly is the reason they parted ways -I have read the rabbi's own motives through "Heal The World" efforts may not have been pure as the driven snow.) I don't believe Boteach had any idea what Michael has gone through, having never walked in his shoes. I'm not even sure Michael would have wanted this book to be published after all's said and done - we have no idea whatsoever that Michael gave a final blessing to this.

Boteach contradicts himself time and again, saying he doesn't believe the molestation charges to be true and then turns around and gives the impression he's implying just that, and has suspicions of his motives toward children. Who needs enemies with friends like this?? The book jumps around abruptly from one subject to another without any continuity whatsoever, making me believe this was a rushed effort to get the book out there asap to profit off of Michael's fans who hunger for anything "Michael"-(shades of Ian Halperin's piece of garbage - which irritates me no end when I see volumes of it ad nauseum at every book shop I see(and no copies to speak of, of "Conspiracy" by Aphrodite Jones) - I can only hope there are so many because no one is buying that fairy

tale!)

Wish I had read the exerpts of Michael's comments at the book store as others here have stated, instead of giving my money to this opportunist. And he has the nerve to thank Michael at the end of the book - yeah,right, "thanks Michael for allowing me to trash you endlessly throughout my book while at the same time raking in the money from your poor, misguided fans who will truly make MY life richer" Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

love the book, not shmuleys comments, October 3, 2009

By Gloria (virginia beach va) - See all my reviews

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I love this book reading how Michael felt in his own words was refreshing,if you are a fan read the book, the type of women he liked and didnt like, religion, everything,on how singing in those clubs when he was young and seeing what he saw shaped the type of women he liked and why he wasnt sleeping with everyone he met and he could have, if he did they would of talk about him for that instead of praising him for keeping his virginty they made fun of him, shmuleys contradicted himself quite a bit in this book, when asking Micheal if he thought God gave him the gift of healing and Michael said yes childern follow me whereever I go,when i visit the sick they feel better, then Shmuley says he has the Messia syndrum, Michael didnt say yes I am God He sd answered the question yes I think God gave me a gift which he did, Michael was always praising and thanking God for the gifts that were giving to him he didnt take advantage, Michael was a people pleaser and that came from trying to please his father who didnt know how to show love, yes Michael wanted to be the biggest star ever and he was he asked for love not for all the women and men falling out, crying screaming he didnt ask for that it just happen and Shmuley once again turn everything around stating Michael wanted idolatry the man just wanted to be loved and wanted to give love back and help anyone who needed it, and it was the very people who he tried to help that broke his spirit, Shmuley stated Michael gave up his will to live I disagree totally, yes Michael might of needed the money that is why he was going to do the this is it concert but if you watch the preview he was smiling and so happy that he was doing what he loved to do and that we his fans still loved him that is why tickets sold out so quickly, Shmuley being a Rabbi should know better than anyone when someone is addicted to anything they have to be the ones to want help they can not do it for anyone else not there kids,family no one but themselves, Shmuley also said Michael wanted to died totally untrue, if you can read the book and take it for what it is and why you bought the book to begin with Michaels thoughts then this is a excellent book if you can not take what Shmuley says with a grain of salt then its not for you, Shmuley is very judgemental concerning Michael in this book it didnt sound like he was trying to help Michael but to do as i say or I cant be your friend anymore...and that is a shame,Shmuley you will be judge in the end for being so judgemental.... Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Sorry!, October 3, 2009

By Natalie Nicolle "Natalie" (Colorado USA) - See all my reviews

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Now despite all the bad reviews I could NOT help myself! I thought about whether or not I was going to order this book for days! I have decided to order it and I am still waiting for delivery. Now I am looking at the reviews again and am scared to read it! > I know I will not be able to resist I love to know what Michael talked about...I am just so curious! Is it REALLY REALLY bad? Or is it impossible to kind of skim over what schmuley is taking out of context? How mad did you get while reading this is the question lol. On a scale from 1-10! AHH I don't know what to do! I will be posting another review when I actually read the book. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Very Interesting (sad but enlightening)..., October 8, 2009

By N. Milton (Florida) - See all my reviews

Although I agree with other reviews that say that it seems as if the Rabbi has sold out his friend, I must admit that this was a pretty good book. It allows the reader to understand a little more about Michael Jackson and what he learned from his experiences. We already knew that he had a difficult childhood, we knew that he was an extremely lonely person, we knew that he adored his children, we knew that he wanted to help the world... so this information is not entirely new but there is more information about those things in this book. Michael talks about his attraction to women (and his distrust of them), his love for his mother, how he wanted to have 9 or 10 children of his own, his feelings for his fans, how he thought he wasn't an ideal husband, and why he craved fame. There is also a chapter dedicated to an interview the Rabbi conducted with Katherine Jackson (which is sweet). However, there are parts of the book where I thought the Rabbi would have done well to leave out (parts about Scientology/Lisa Marie Presley/her marriage to Michael and some quotes from Michael about Madonna... quotes that, for good reason, have not been discussed during the publicity interviews for this book... these are not the quotes that you've already heard).

After reading the book, I choose to believe that at the time that Michael was allowing himself to be recorded for this, that he wanted this book published. I also believe that the Rabbi feels guilty for not reaching out to Michael again during the past few years. He was given an opportunity to come back into his life, but he declined. Regardless of what the Rabbi is doing now (making money), he tells us what he learned from Michael in this book, and in turn, we can also learn some of the same things. This book doesn't make Michael look like a monster or a suicidal person. He was a survivor and he learned whatever he could from the things life threw at him. Its sad that he's not here anymore. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Preachy but truthful, October 10, 2009

By Cheryl A. Miller "Cher83" (Merced, Ca USA) - See all my reviews

I bought this book with the intent of learning more about the man that Michael Jackson was. As a life long fan, most of what was published in this book was not "news" to me. I first heard of Rabbi Boteach through his TLC show "Shalom in the Home" (I never watched it but saw TV ads constantly). I personally found the rabbi's words "preachy" but that can be expected from a religious leader. There are a lot of parts in the book that are repeated a few times through out, for what seems to be an attempt to drive home a certain point. What that point was, I couldn't figure out. There was one statement made by Rabbi Boteach made several times in the book that confused me greatly. Boteach wrote (at least 5 times) that he felt Michael was innocent of the molestation charges brought against him (which was later proven in a court of law), but then also several times he stated that he would not leave Michael alone with his children. I got the feeling from these statements that Boteach did not trust Michael around children, I personally do not know why, but then I never met Michael or Boteach myself.

Overall, I liked this book, it was well put together, however controversial the material might be. Was Michael a god? No. What he "god like"? Yes, I believe so. Was it something Michael conjured up or was it the doing of his fans? Both parties are probably at fault equally. I believe every word from these tapes that Michael felt he needed to find love from the world in order to fill the void left from the lack of love his father showed him as a child. When you don't have something growing up, you go to great extremes to get that something in your life in much greater quantities than you would have needed as a child.

I hope that everyone will give this book a chance; I believe this book comes from a place of love, gratitude and confusion.

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Worth It, October 6, 2009

By surprised customer (st. louis, mo) - See all my reviews

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I was skeptical about this book after reading many of the low-rated reviews so far posted. However, I wanted to know about who Michael Jackson was as a person. So despite the warnings and low ratings, I ordered the book. I realized Rabbi Shmuley was on Michael's hit list, and that is somewhat disturbing because I didn't want to buy a book contributing to that scenario. But it seemed to be one of the few ways to learn about Michael as a person and he DID at one point plan to make all this public. And despite everything else, it IS stuff straight from Michael's mouth. It was not something someone made up. The truth speaks.

SO, I have given this book five stars because it is definitely in the words of Michael. It is heartbreaking in places and uplifting in places and confusing in places. The bottom line for me is that if you read this book, you have to be aware of a few things. As much as you might love Michael, the truth is that he had dysfunction in areas of his life and that for the most part, it was delivered upon him before he could even be aware of it or do anything about it. Also, the truth is that Michael turned to drugs to dull his pain, and as anyone who has come up against any kind of dysfunction, be it alcohol, drugs or anything else, knows, it can be very difficult to curb that behavior, whether it is a person trying to shake things himself or friends or family trying to influence behavior. The last thing to be aware of is that Rabbi Shmuley is a religious personage and you have to remember that his job is to counsel and lead.

The book is a wonderful insight into Michael's brain and it begins to form a picture of Michael as a person. He comes across as very intelligent, very kind and caring, yet at times it seems as if he did not quite know himself, as when he said he would like to go out with Katie Couric. To the rest of the world, I am guessing this seems like a poor match. My belief is that Michael may not have had enough experience with women to understand what was best for him or what he really wanted. So there are those moments. There is some dysfunction apparent. But I am not sure it is of the magnitude that would impact anyone much other than himself.

I would like to address some of the comments about Rabbi Shmuley. He DOES spend pages somewhat analyzing stuff but he is a Rabbi and that is what he does. I did not feel he was being arrogant but i DID feel that you have to take some of that with a grain of salt. He is a religious personage and to me it was classic rhetoric. I did not feel he was attacking Michael. Rather, I felt that he was speaking only of the dysfunction he saw, which was the truth. It was there. I have a feeling that if a person has not perhaps experienced a lot of life or has not dealt with personal dysfunction, what the Rabbi is saying in places may have seemed as if it was arrogant or an attack and this is why I think some of the ratings are low. If a person HAS experienced dysfunction, then I believe it will be more apparent that the Rabbi is coming to the only conclusions that one can come to a lot of times in the face of dysfunction.

Parts of this book are very heartbreaking and sad, and if you can't take that, don't buy it. But probably the majority of it is a fascinating insight into who Michael Jackson was as a person, as much as he could be truthful. There were times that I wasn't sure he was completely truthful, but I'm not sure this was conscious. Mainly, there seemed to be a disconnect between some of the things Michael was believing in and his ability to apply those beliefs and values to himself in order to straighten his life out.

I only hope Rabbi Shmuley gives us all of the transcripts. The kindness and caring and love that Michael believed in are lessons to be learned for everyone. The sad story is that despite that, he couldn't save himself. But the rest of us can learn from this gentle man and this comes across throughout the book. Michael's ability to perform is completely disconcerting because the private Michael, as much as we are allowed to see, is at complete odds with that. He comes across as a very sensitive, caring, loving person, with a dysfunction that perhaps would have been no more severe than that many Americans are walking around with, except for the fact that he had enough money to isolate himself and was not forced to take many steps to heal himself. He did not seem like the freak he has been portrayed as. I believe Lisa Marie said it best in Randy Taraborelli's book where she said, and I am paraphrasing here, that it was too bad Michael didn't let the world see him because he was so normal and then people wouldn't think she was such a freak for being into him. That he drank, that he cussed, that he sat on the couch and was normal.

The Rabbi explains their parting as his inability to help Michael anymore and I found it completely plausible. If you are part of dysfunction then you will be destroyed along with it if you don't withdraw and I believe this was behind Michael's divorce from Lisa Marie as well. Anyone who has been involved in a dysfunction will tell you that. He seems mystified about why she agreed to have children and then once they were married she went back on her word. My guess would be that Lisa Marie did not go back on her word. She came to see the dysfunction in Michael and made a conscious decision that she did not want to bring children into that life when she realized she could not save him and that they would have to part. Michael even said in the book that he would not be easy to live with.

In the book, he talks about women, Lisa, their marriage, Madonna, children, his love of play, the perfect woman, and much philosophy of life. One thing I would like to point out is that the Rabbi was of the belief that Michael had a Messiah complex at times. I did not see it that way; I believe Michael believed in the power of love and that that is what was operational, not that he was a be all and end all messiah come to save humanity. I think he truly believed that love was strength and power and that that power was tremendous. How could he not think that? That is what he never had as a child and as an adult, it was at the forefront of his existence. He talks about innocence, his children and lots of stuff.

So, if you can read the book and be aware of these things, then you will get a lot from it. If you cannot see the structure of Rabbi Shmuley's approach, then you will believe he is attacking at times when he is merely pointing out the truth of Michael's dysfunction. If you accept that Michael was not perfect and was a HUMAN BEING then I think you will love this book as much as I did. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Worth the time, September 30, 2009

By M. Dopsovic "MJ fan2009" (Slatington, PA USA) - See all my reviews

This book is definately worth reading in my opinion. Although there is speculation by Rabbi Boteach, it was still refreshing to read a book at least partly written in Michael's own words. I've read all the speculation and hear-say books out there. I was really glad to read something that had portions that came from Michael's own heart and the heart of his mother Katherine. The down side of the book is Rabbi Boteach's speculative judgement of Michael. Even though he had these intimate conversations with Michael, he was still NOT inside Michael's head or heart, and he is NOT God. He has NO right to judge Michael or anyone else for that matter.

Also, there are a lot of things we can ALL learn from Michael's words and even certain things from the Rabbi as well. There's a lot to be learned about love and family, and even ego from Michael. In the book the Rabbi confesses that Michael has taught him a thing or two about love and child rearing.

I just hope that the Rabbi is telling the truth about the tapes, that they were really meant for public ears. I hope that's really what Michael would have wanted. because this is really a brief look into his heart and soul. I'm not even sure we belong there.

I think it would have been better if the Rabbi would have just published the tapes of Michael in his own words without adding his judgements and speculation so we could have drawn our OWN conclusions. He does make some good points though.

If I could suggest one thing to the Rabbi, it would be that he should take most of the profits from this book and donate them to Michael's "Heal the World" foundation or a children's charity of his choice to show his sincerity about the project. That would show that he wasn't what he claimed not to be all throughout the book, a hanger on, or somebody who just wanted to capitalize off of Michael's fame. He claimed to be a REAL friend to Michael. Prove it!!!! For a supposed humble man of God, he surely needs a lot of money and fame.

Like I said, it was really great to get a glimpse inside Michael, the man!

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Touching and Humanizing, September 30, 2009

By Jools (Kirkland, WA United States) - See all my reviews

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I had read from various media sources that these tapes existed and that Rabbi Shmuley had plans to publish the contents. As an MJ fan, I was looking forward to it. After his death, I read Taraborelli's (for the second time - I had read an earlier publication in the 1980s) and Aphrodite Jones' books. However, those books always left me wondering whether we would ever truly hear MJ's voice. They were wonderful accounts of events that had happened in his life, but as a fan, I always knew that there was more to MJ than his megastar status, his talent for music and dance and his prowess for entertaining and holding the attention of thousands at a time. What motivated him? Who is he behind the music?

This book did not disappoint me. If anything, it left me wanting more and not because I want to find out more about MJ the entertainer, but MJ the man. This is one of the most humanizing accounts of MJ I think we'll ever find. How can it not be when these are his very own words? He speaks on a variety of topics - children, finding true friendships, fame, religion, his ideal woman ("I like it when girls are a little more tomboyish. If they wrestle, climb a tree ... I love that. It is sexier to me"). His introspection and poignant comments were suprising, but only because he expressed more depth than one would ever expect. As I read the book, MJ goes from being an almost mystical superstar to a regular guy with very perceptive and intelligent observations; observations that made me laugh, cringe, giggle and tear. And that's exactly what I was looking for in a book on MJ.

Rabbi Shmuley ends the book by providing his commentary on MJ's life of which any reviewers here have expressed anger. I admit that my initial reaction to his commentary at the end was that the Rabbi was being overly harsh. However, it's the sort of harshness that we've all experienced when we've been rebuked by our parents or other loved ones, wisdom that we only come to appreciate later in life. Being rebuked is different from being poked fun at. The Rabbi doesn't tease or call Michael names because of his eccentricities, but instead points out the negative trappings of fame (being able to get anything you want, being surrounded by sycophants) and how MJ wasn't able to pry himself from it. There is truth to that. MJ's death stemmed from always being given what he wanted even if it wasn't in his best interest, and as angry as fans may be, it is something we cannot deny.

I urge critics and fans alike to read this book. It's a perspective on MJ that you'll not get elsewhere. And read it not to be entertained but to gain insight into the unique circumstances of MJ's life. I am convinced this will only arouse sympathy and compassion, even with his critics. Now I will listen to Michael's music with a deeper appreciation for his lyrics, especially when he sings in Stranger in Moscow: "Here abandoned in my fame/Armageddon of the brain"

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Give it a chance, October 3, 2009

By Pat O'Donnell - See all my reviews

Why are supposed Jackson fans spreading such blatant lies? It is extremely troubling to see the many posts here on Amazon that cite Roger Friedman and his absurd articles. Roger Friedman has been spreading his lies and vitriol about Michael Jackson for nearly a decade. Prior to being fired from Fox News in 2008, Roger Friedman made a living digging up dirt and spreading lies about Michael Jackson, becoming MIchael's single biggest enemy in the media.

His articles have focused maniacally on Jackson's financial woes, exposing every unfavorable detail from his wedding ring on Ebay to his battle over ownership of The Beatles catalog.

He regularly panned Michael's albums, publishing derogatory statement upon derogatory statement in his album reviews and insisted on MIchael's guilt when Michael was falsely accused of molestation.

In 2001, Friedman stated emphatically that Michael's "whole career (is) in jeopardy again" and referred to Michael's two-night concert event in New York's Madison Square Garden as the "freak show at the garden."

In 2007 Friedman claimed Michael was "homeless, wandering, carting around three school-aged kids" and alleged Michael had developed a friendship with "former imprisoned crack addict and Washington D.C. Mayor Marion Barry." Michael stated unequivocally that the entire article was nothing but "lies" and his spokeswoman Raymone K. Bain, issued a statement on his behalf to the press.

Bain wrote to the journalist denying all of the claims, hinting Jackson may sue over the allegations. She wrote, "All of this is a complete lie. You continue to write untruths which can be verified as untruths. I do not know why you do not check to determine the accuracy of your sources. And, I do not know why you have such venom for Michael Jackson. Michael Jackson is not homeless, carting around with three school-aged kids... While where Mr. Jackson is currently residing is his own private business, Mr. Jackson will never be 'homeless' as long as he owns the 3,000 acre estate called Neverland Valley Ranch. I will let Mr. Jackson's attorneys deal with other issues you have raised should they see fit."

Considering all of the above, I'm not surprised that Friedman also went after Michael's philanthropic endeavor with Rabbi Shmuley. Friedman fabricated yet another lie that there had been mismanagement of funds from the Heal the Kids charity and continues to spread lies regarding money raised at a concert at Carnegie Hall, despite all of his accusations being incontrovertibly refuted. Ron Feiner, attorney for Heal The Kids issued a statement saying "As far as the lies being written to discredit Rabbi Shmuley and Michael Jackson, Heal the Kids was run in full compliance with all Federal and State laws and handled in an extremely professional manner. Suggestions to the contrary on the part of some discredited tabloid journalists eight years ago was nothing but an attempt to malign Michael and Rabbi Shmuley because they objected to Michael serving as a spokesperson for families. It seems incredible that Michael's fans, of all people, would repeat the distortions of those who despised Michael. They contain not a shred of truth."

Now, perhaps due to the fact that he has more time on his hands since being fired from Fox News, Friedman is going after Rabbi Shmuley for his book, The Michael Jackson Tapes, which is no surprise given that Friedman is the single biggest Michael hater of all time. Any true MJ fan would find this book refreshing and enlightening. It's extremely well written and at times simply enthralling. It was Michael's wish to have his words heard, and it's truly unfortunate that a select few supposed "fans" are trying to undermine such a great work based on Friedman's fabrications. In essence, those posting lies here on Amazon are no better than Roger Friedman, himself. Additionally, its blatantly obvious that many of the negative reviews are being posted by individuals who haven't even read the book.

Why haven't Michael's fans expressed outrage over Friedman's incessant lies? Why are the individuals posting negative comments taking the side of someone who has disparaged Michael for years--referring to him as homeless and friends with a crack addict? This book is an absolute gift in my opinion. It's simply an opportunity for us fans to hear Michael's words as he wanted us to--without a filter and in their truest form.

I strongly encourage Michael's true fans to come together and rebut the lies being posted on forums and websites. Post fair and accurate reviews of this truly outstanding book--if you would actually take the time to read it you will understand what I mean.

It's time for the true fans to show their support for Michael by pressuring this hack--Roger Friedman--to retire his column. That is, if he isn't fired first.

Additionally, I found this Q&A chat session on the washington post very helpful....

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Michael Jackson Tapes, September 26, 2009

By Susie "susie" (NJ) - See all my reviews

Why is this called the "Michael Jackson Tapes", when it is in transcript format? Is there going to be a CD available in the future with Michael's voice on it? I would like to hear him speaking on the tapes in his own voice. Also, on Dateline the Rabbi says that Michael authorized publishing these tapes, how do we know that? Does Michael mention his wishes to have these conversations published on the tapes? Was there a contract signed? Details please. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

The REAL story of Michael Jackson told by Michael, September 25, 2009

By Bob Waskiewicz (Wintersville, Ohio United States) - See all my reviews

Dateline on NBC at 9pm tonight is going to have these tapes Michael recorded for Rabbi Shmuley Boteach.You hear Michael talking about his Father,family,and his love for Brooke Shields, Princess Diann and Tatum O'neal.The part were his father beats him oiled up and Naked is terrible.I know all of this can't be true,but after hearing this over and over again,some of it has to be.Michael and Janet use to imagine Joe Jackson lying in a coffin.

There's also his dislike for Madonna.He calls her a Mean and Nasty Witch.When they went out to dinner in the early 90's,some kids ran up to them asking for autographs.Madonna told them to get out of here,and Michael told her to never do that ever to kids,then she told him to "Shut Up,"and Michael replies,"No you Shut up."

This is Michael Jacksons take on this life recorded by Rabbi Shmuley Boteach from 1999-2001.Michael never talked to the Rabbi after 2001,and was on his hit list after there friendship ended because the Rabbi dissaproved of the way MJ was living this life,but some are saying Michael fired Shumley after he stoled money from Heal the Kids Foundation.If this really happened,Please don't buy this book. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Likely the truest portrait we'll ever see, September 25, 2009

By EPshots@yahoo.com (USA) - See all my reviews

Soooo glad MJ puts Madonna in her place...calls her a 'witch"...brownnosing at the mtv video awards NOW doesn't erase his disgust of her THEN...love it! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Revelation Accomplished, September 30, 2009

By L. Hastings (USA) - See all my reviews

I set aside the fact that I've been a life long fan of Michael Jackson when I chose to open myself to read this book. I wanted to learn more about Michael Jackson, the man, as opposed to Michael Jackson, the Ultimate Star. In this book, I was introduced to both. I became as comfortable with this book as Michael Jackson became with Rabbi Shmuley, his family and these taped conversations. It wasn't long before I forgot that I was reading about a Super Nova celebrity. MJ is portrayed as the highly intelligent, sharp, humble, deep and honest, super talented human being that he was. He had a dream that was bigger than his celebrity and that superseded the humanitarian work that he was already doing. He was also trying to regain his self-respect and the respect of the public. MJ met Rabbi Shmuley, took a liking to him and found their conversations enlightening. Together, they set out to get MJ's life in order and to prioritize what was really important in Michael's life and to help him realize his big dream. So began the taped conversations. What was startling to me is the vast range of topics that these conversations cover. MJ's responses are honest and revealing. The topics cover religion, history, world affairs, art, children, family. This is not a book of MJ whining about his pain, or the injustices of his life. However, his life is very much discussed and he is revealing what he feels; how he's been affected. Nothing is held back, but it is all done with grace and respect. It is clear that Rabbi Shmuley is interested and quite taken with Michael, the man. He allows you to glimpse what it's like being in the company of Michael, the superstar and admits that MJ's world is extremely intoxicating. He states that you have to proceed with caution or you could lose yourself in it. He gives his opinion on how Michael was swallowed up in his own fame. He shows how Fame was just one of many things that Michael was addicted to. There is much good about MJ in these pages. But if you believe the good, then you have to accept the bad. Because MJ is a man first and super celebrity second; there is going to be bad.

The questions and topics are designed to probe deep into MJ's mind and require thoughtful response and MJ gives you that. Rabbi Shmuley and Michael Jackson were friends. Nothing indicates that MJ thought he was talking to a therapist. MJ knows that these tapes are being recorded with the purpose of a book in mind. Perhaps, if their friendship had continued then the book would have ended on a different note, which means to me that Michael's life could have possibly ended on a different note and at a different time. I don't think much of its content would have changed. If anything, Tragic Icon may have been omitted from the title; it could have been quite positive because Rabbi Shmuley appears to have been a very positive force in Michael's life. I am not suggesting that Rabbi Shmuley would have saved MJ's life, but I believe the he and others like him, with MJ's help, could have made a difference. That doesn't mean that there is no criticism here or scrutiny. Rabbi Shmuley does not hold back his opinion. In real life, real freinds tell you what they think is right and what they think is wrong. I don't think he's talking behind Michael's back because Michael can't respond. He's talking about a lot of other celebrities who are very much alive and can respond. Michael took the time to befriend this man, he wanted to include him in his mission to make his legacy count for something beyond his celebrity. I wanted to read what Michael took the time to say. I don't feel that this book is exploitative. I feel that it could have been. The cover of this book is very understated; there is no CD included with the actual taped conversations. Had there of been, this book probably would not have been available for me to purchase. Sales would be through the roof due to all of the fans who just want to hear Michael's voice and could careless what he's saying. Rabbi Shmuley makes you consider your own life. He has you thinking long after you've finished the book. What this book really showed me was that Michael Jackson did have positive forces in his life. He did reach out and there were positive people who loved and cared for him and tried to help him. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Compelling and Honest, September 27, 2009

By MJ's REAL Fan "Steady Reader" (Chicago) - See all my reviews

I thought this book was compelling and honest. I'm a big MJ fan and wanted to know what he had to say, in his own words, and I got that from this book. The truth seems to upset too many people who just want to make him something more than he was - a world class artist. I loved the honesty and thought the analysis was excellent and thoughtful. I highly recommend this! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

A Fair, Balanced and Revealing Account, September 29, 2009

By Woodland Poet - See all my reviews

I am reading this book out of curiosity and found the signifigant introduction to be fair and revealing. The Rabbi does not in any way trash Michael Jackson. In fact there is much sorrow I think that the man could not help Jackson more. Jackson's behavior and words do suggest a man who was unable to trust, was very uncomfortable with sexuality, unreconciled with childhood, fearful of aging and death and was not nearly in control of his life as he would have liked the world to believe. Michael Jackson was a wonderful entertainer and a man who often did wonderful things for people. I believe that Jackson did far more good than harm in the world and the Rabbi's book tries to show that desire in Michael Jackson. But Michael Jackson was also a very troubled and very imperfect man, uncomfortable even in his own skin. He was more uncomfortable with any kind of scrutiny. The early chapter on image suggests a man with great appreciation for beauty who at the own time held his own appearance in contempt. The Rabbit is correct that Michael Jackson was a magnified example of much of what is wrong with image and culture in America. The drugs that ultimately killed Michael Jackson were fame and adulation, made worse by health issues and addiction to pain medicines. These human flaws and addications do not mean that we love the entertainer any less, only that we finally realize that real people have real human limitations. The Rabbi attamepts to show that Michael Jackson was always first a person, and only second, an entertainer. And Michael Jackson was a real human person, often struggling alone in the world while the world gazed on in constant fascination. It was a place that no person could exist in for too long. The Rabbi's book makes no accusations, only observations and reflections. He does not convict Jackson of any crime but does not pretend that accusations did not exist either. If the book is in any way exploitive, it is no less so than the world exploited Michael Jackson for the last 45 years, only I think that perhaps if read with any open mind, the Rabbi's book might provide considerably more understanding of Michael Jackson and ourselves. I prefer to think that the book is timely. Keep in mind that this book is in no way the final word on Michael Jackson's life and legacy but rather is an insight into Michael's life at a particular time. For open minds, this book is a fair read and worth the time. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

The truth hurts., October 8, 2009

By A.Lover (California) - See all my reviews

First off I want to say that I am a Michael Jackson fan.

The truth hurts. This book contains truth.

If you are going to read this book you have to understand that this book is written by a Rabbi. This book is based on Michael's own words and the moral implications of them. If you are not a moral person, you will not enjoy this book.

Secondly, if you are a fan who thinks that Michael was incapable of the making human choices and mistakes, this book is not for you. On the same note if you are a fan who is primarily concerned with preserving the legacy of the "King of Pop" through rose colored glasses, you will not appreciate this book.

However, if you are someone who wants to better understand who Michael was, how he thought and what he stood for, this book will give you another intimate glimpse into one part of his life.

As to those who say that these tapes were not for a book and that Michael had no plans to publish them. Shmuley was not hiding the purpose of these tapes from Michael. In fact they both reference making a book several times in the transcripts. Shmuley says the book was never published because of the trial. It fits the time line and makes sense, if they had published any of this information during that time it would only have been up for intense criticism and been disastrous. That's why he says it never came to be, because the world could not accept it with an open compassionate mind anymore. Many are not willing to give the Rabbi the benefit of the doubt. After reading the ENTIRE book I believe the transcripts and his sorry are mostly accurate.

I recommend this book to anyone interested in the truth, anyone with an open compassionate mind, and anyone who is not closed off to religious perspectives.

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THIS IS TRULY MICHAEL JACKSON IN HIS OWN WORDS, September 27, 2009

By Kathryn Milofsky "kathrynm" (usa) - See all my reviews

This is the most powerful book ever written about Michael Jackson. It is Michael speaking for the first time about the pyschological trauma and demons,that haunted him his whole life. He wanted the world to know, how he was thrust into the limelight as a child, being pushed by his father who truly didn't understand what Michael was going thru. Michael said himself " He was Joseph's money making machine" "His own father said if they stopped singing he would drop them like a hot potato" What child wants to live a life like this in constant fear of his father. It is not the way life should be,ever.

Fans and critics need to take a step backwards,what Rabbi Boteach is doing is showing AMERICA how Michael Jackson's tragic demise at an early age can really be redeemed, by serving as a morality tale for the rest of the world. Whst is wrong with our culture,that people have to turn to reality tv shows to seek fame and love. What about true family values, the importance and significnace of leading a godly life with real purpose. The King of Pop had eveything at his fingerips, money, fans fame - which he admittedly wanted - but the things "he truly wanted to be loved eluded him. " Michael cherished the Friday nights at the Rabbi's home, he was at peace there - not being judged and treated as a normal human being. Rabbi Boteach was doing what he knew best - in helping Michael to heal and become whole again. What is so wrong with that.

Don't shoot the messenger, Rabbi Boteach is merely getting the word out - what Michael wanted the world to know about him.

It is Michaels perspective, on what made him who he was -

This book is a must read - you will certainly gain a much better depth and understanding of Michael Jackson - the man,the

father,The Michael Jackson Tapes: A Tragic Icon Reveals His Soul in Intimate Conversationthe icon the tortured souls.

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Best Book on Michael--Thank You Rabbi, October 1, 2009

By AGreene "AG" (USA) - See all my reviews

The Michael Jackson Tapes is the single best book about Michael Jackson ever written. It is illuminating, deep, enlightening, and insightful and in it, Michael truly bares his soul. I have read all the history of the book and Michael sat to record these interviews for no other purpose than to have his words shared with the public. he wanted to finally be heard by the public, without having to go through the media, who we all know, never understood him and were never sympathetic to him. I attended some of the events of Heal the Kids, they were outstanding events and I thank Rabbi Shmuley and Michael for trying to get parents to put their kids first. How sad that so many people here are posting the lies of Roger Friedman, the single biggest Michael Jackson hater, who spread lies about Michael, who he called a freak and homeless for the past ten years. I thank rabbi Shmuley for this special gift of giving us this side of Michael, that we otherwise would never have known. The conversations between Michael and Rabbi Shmuley read like a gripping novel, I simply could not put it down and it was impossible to even sleep. I read it in one sitting. My only problem with the book is that it is too short and I look forward to more of the conversations being released. This is an outstanding book, don't believe all the lies being posted here by Michael Jackson haters, who forever want the King of Pop to be silenced. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

heartwarming and heartwrenching, October 1, 2009

By Angela Lukasiewski "angela lukasiewski" (wilkes barre pa) - See all my reviews

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i received this book today and immediately started reading it.the tears started as soon as i was done with the first paragraph.people are saying that this man wrote this book for money but i will tell you that this book was written with love.also people are saying that michael's privacy is being invaded and you are wrong michael wanted this book published.he helped with writing it..i strongly recommend this book for any true mj fan.im so glad i purchased it.... Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

The Truth, September 29, 2009

By R. Feiner - See all my reviews

The Michael Jackson Tapes is a book of immense power, honesty, and truth, and completely transforms the public's perception of Michael. As far as the lies being written to discredit Rabbi Shmuley, Heal the Kids was run in full compliance with all Federal and State laws and handled in an extremely professional manner. Suggestions to the contrary on the part of some discredited tabloid journalists eight years ago was nothing but an attempt to malign Michael and Rabbi Shmuley beacause they objected to Michael serving as a spokesperson for families. It seems incredible that Michael's fans, of all people, would repeat the distortions of those who despised MIchael. They contain not a shred of truth.

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MJ wanted people to know about him, September 26, 2009

By LLC "song bird" (Northern California) - See all my reviews

Michael wanted people to about him from his own lips, not from the tabloids. He also wanted to set the record straight in his own words. I think for the most part, to that date, this book does that. This book is for anyone who wants to know the truth about Michael, his thoughts, beliefs, what motiviated him, what hurt him, etc...I loved the Dateline interview and recorded it BECAUSE it was in Michael's own voice! His spoken voice has been silenced, never to be heard again. That is a tragedy. The problem with this book is that it should not be a book, it should be CDs and a transcript. However, it is better than nothing and it is from MJ himself, which is why I gave it 3 stars. Michael knew, even after he and the Rabbi had broken relationship, that the interview could or would be made public. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

A Truly Fascinating Account, September 28, 2009

By Renton Begbie "dude" - See all my reviews

Any Michael Jackson fan will be enthralled with this intimate portrayal of the singer, in his own words. Nothing of the sort has ever been made available to the public, and the Rabbi does an outstanding job of writing with professionalism and discretion. Rush to by this book now! Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

Thanks for sharing Rabbi, September 26, 2009

By Susan Jackson "ParisinNY" (NY, NY) - See all my reviews

If Michael jackson didn't want his inner most thoughts broadcast to the world, why would he have allowed the Rabbi to tape the conversations? The Rabbi writes books (21 according to him). I'm sure Michael knew these tapes would be used for something (like a book) one day. Was he just allowing him to record these conversations for the Rabbi to keep in his personal library to pass down to his children and grandchildren? I doubt it. I think he wanted the world to know him and understand him and love him. He trusted the rabbi enough to speak openly, freely and truthfully. It seems there were very few people in the world he could do that with. I appreciate and thank the Rabbi for sharing these tapes with us, so that we can know the real Michael a little bit more. I don't feel like he is exploiting Michael's death at all. I think this "gift" comes from a genuine place. It's a gift to the world and to Michael (who I believe would be fine with the Rabbi making them public.... now that he's gone).

I wish there was SOMEONE in his life who could have helped him. I'm happy that he had his children to give him that joy and unconditional love, but even that wasn't enough to save him. Such a sad story. Help other customers find the most helpful reviews

The Rabbi played the original tapes, September 26, 2009

By L. Betts "leathab" (Woods Cross, Utah USA) - See all my reviews

And it does show a disturbed human being, broken and delusional. The Rabbi tried to help, suggested rehab as did Michael Jackson's family. He just could not be helped nor controlled. He chose his own demise. This book simply verifies what has been hinted at for years.